Ignore post before this it was a accident. You should always absolutely do what you can to help someone else or love them. Because you should never change who you are based on how people treat you. That doesn’t mean we don’t have boundaries. But you have to understand people are doing the best they can with what they know and have been conditioned to believe.
We can never fix or change anyone, we can offer advice when asked, our best thing to help others is, nurture a loving feel over them in your mind,
also don’t judge at all, people just want to be herd and felt, be that open space for them. Also remember people who are in pain hurt others, they don’t mean it and so that’s where empathy comes in. Everyone else mite give up on them, but not you,
most people who take the I am a victim road, won’t be too open to help, because negetivity is there comfort. However most people refuse help because most the time they are not looking for advice, they just want to be understood and felt, not offered a solution.
we don’t tolerate violence though or any law breaking behavior.
so yes you see it’s all about perception. Society is negatively geared, we are taught to suppress negative emotions and not feel them, we can’t be seen as weak, however being vulnerable is true strength.
so Yes provide a loving energy over them because if you change the way you feel about people even when there behavior is unacceptable thsts when it counts. Always take the high road
theres A saying in business. Do you want to be right or do you want to be rich. It means treat people kindly no matter what, because you get payed on giving value and making people feel good, not putting them in there place