Dear BobbyOz,
Thank you for finding the courage to post about your confusion. As a very supportive community, we do our best to try and help.
We understand that you are feeling alone and lonely, and you are confused about where to turn for advice, or what your next steps might be to find friends, and eventually, a loving relationship. And, the truth is, one of the deepest desires for all of us is to be loved and respected.
A few questions to ask yourself:
How do I want my future partner to treat me?
In order to find a partner who will treat me that way, how do I need to treat her?
What sorts of groups of people, and physical activities do I need to get involved with so I can maybe meet potential partners?
How do I need to interact with those people so I appear as the nice person I really am?
In order to practice and become better at connecting with other people, we would like to encourage you to call Beyond Blue at 1300 22 4636, or To use webchat,
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call Life Line at 13 1114
Or Kids Help Line at 1800 55 1800.
Remember that we are always here for you.
Warm regards,
Sophie M.