Hello Rodlin, sometimes we are unable to make decisions for the rest of the family and even if we try, doesn't mean they will accept what we've said, so they make other decisions in contrary to what we've suggested.
I hope your first appointment went well but realise that this session is to get to know each other and for you to have confidence this person will understand what you are saying to them.
If I can suggest that you write down the issues troubling you and/or any trigger points in point form, this just makes it easier for them to know straight away, rather than having to read a letter.
We all want to help you as well.
Geoff.