Hello PP, I'm sorry that your thread has been missed, sometimes when the site is busy, especially at night time, different threads go unanswered and then end up on page 2 or 3, my apologies.
Probably a good question is, how would you feel if someone you love were suffering and came to you, would you be glad they confided in you and would you be ready to help them in any way you could.
Parents often wonder if there was something they could have done differently that would have prevented you from struggling, but I don't think this is happening, because your husband doesn't mind.
Thinking through and explaining your thoughts might help them to respond in a way that is more helpful for you, but if you're proud then it won't matter.
If the word gets out I wouldn't be too worried.
There would be no reason why you wouldn't be welcome in any LGBTIQ spaces.