What an extraordinarily immature and lame thing that he did. Showing you a picture of bikini models!? It could have been motivated by his own insecurity (like others have said below). We are all riddled with deep insecurities and some people act this out pathologically, through insults etc.
Other people's assessments should be treated as potentially true at best, taken with a mountain of salt. We tend to assume they are true and internalize it; it's so difficult not to. I always ask myself 'Is the criticism coming from someone I know to be wise, honest and moral'?
You know what's unattractive? Lack of character.
Physical attractiveness is pretty darn subjective, and in the eye of the beholder.
Totally get the lingering feelings though, and the urge to text. Well done for resisting.
I loooove psychedelic rock (from the 60's to now). If you have more suggestions please lord share them! 'She's a Mod' that guitar in the middle, sooo good. Totally new gem for me.
Here's my favs, from old to new :
The Doors (duh), Grace Slick (duh), Count Five (Psychotic Reaction, Pretty Big Mouth), Blue Cheer (Peace of Mind, Good Times are so Hard to Find), Shocking Blue (Send Me a Postcard)
New stuff: BJM (Anemone, Servo), The Sonic Dawn (Summer Voyage), Tash Sultana (Jungle), Tame Impala (Elephant: see Wiggles version! Hilarious)