l do know where your coming from .
Back in my 20s only a gf l was with for awhile. But first there was her thing with her family , she was happy just sitting around with them all day night wkends, holidays. But 2ndly , her sisters bf , whom got along with my gf better than he did her sister, l use to wonder how the sister wasn't worried. l didn't fit anywhere and her coming over to mine was like a sacrifice to her.
One wkend we went away, l didn't think she'd come it'd mean leaving the family and sisters bf. Well we had a great time but getting back to Melbourne that night , she was suppose to stay at mine, and l was so looking forward to it being just us, just to round of our wkend away. Well it was a 6hr drive home but as soon as we got back she made an excuse and raced back to hers the sisters bf and family , and l was left home alone after finally having our beautiful wkend away, just us. lt never ended.
M always reminds me of her and the trouble is like her, he just loves it too. And like us , your just so different like that. lt's a pretty tough call tbh.