Had dinner at M's tonight. His son was a little down as he couldn't go away or go out this weekend due to exams/study. I think M didn't want him to feel alone. Dinner was nice, sis & bf were there. I saw another side of bf I didn't like. He is a bit of a stirrer but also a bit of a jerk I thought. I mentioned that from 6pm tonight we don't have to wear masks outdoors. He laughed and said he'd never worn one anyway. I was a little surprised. He's been putting everyone at risk. I knew he'd had friends over last month who got drunk and slept there but I didn't know he was so blatantly ignoring the rules. He's fully vaxed bur doesn't matter. He's posted things on social media re vaxing to stir people up & it caused some tension amongst sis' friends. Sis got quite peeved at him for continuing to stir her about her Vax. She told him that's He's gone too far now and needs to stop. Wow. Now that he's all comfy and settled in the family I find him quite annoying. He gets hayfever and constantly makes a snorting noise to clear his throat. It's revolting and constant. I also thought when M stayed over last Friday sis was at her bf's house. Turns out she was home later, so still don't know if M stays here only if she's home with them. Now he can cycle properley with a group and weather proving, will that change his mind on sleeping here? He was organising his ride tonight, where to meet etc. It may not, but interesting times ahead.
If I were dating someone like the bf...we'd be done. Laughing & thinking it's funny not wearing a mask all this time. Staying at M's, risking getting Covid & infecting others and us. M knows how I feel about rule breakers. I made it clear what I thought about their selfishness. M just agreed with me and all along the bf was one of them. Guess I was right not to go there during lockdown, but still he could have infected M and in turn M could have infected us and his school etc. M was furious with a dad at school who refused to wear a mask yet bf did the same thing. Guess he just can't stand up to his sis and tell her but he can be peeved off at others. Sis works in healthcare too. How irresponsible of them.
Yeah, bf bit too cocky for my liking. Don't think sis has much patience for him either.