your ex sounds like the old me in the bill department. But l've tried really hard this last 12mths to turn a new leaf , first time in my life l've been on top of the bills.
Sorry about your daughter , believe me l know all too well and much much more. My d has slipped back into depression and anxiety, so much has happened for her, poor thing, it's so hard and heartbreaking isn't it. But yeah , same as yours in the regard of what to do which has been going on 19mths for her now.Unfortunately that's only part of things but lt's huge for her nonetheless. She won't see anyone either anymore , not for that or the other issues, but she's put so much pressure on herself with the career side of things.l'm starting to wonder just what they do to them at school these days with them coming out of it like this it's just terrible.
We keep saying , well anything we can think of actually but mainly that it doesn't matter. She can always just get some work and when something comes later on she can lool at course then , or never. You can train and study at any age now and a lot of people have no idea on a direction as yet when we leave school. l wish she'd just take the pressure of herself and not worry.
Weird isn't , some don't have a clue or care , others get like this, really sad.