Yes i am very lucky. Very flat atm. So his sis turned 40 few months ago and ticking over off her bucket list. Sports model/body building, bought a Tiffany necklace, a Cartier ring and now looking at a new car. Alfa Romeo, about $130,000 , fastest SUV in the world, lots of bells and whistles. M loves Alfa's and is very impressed with it. I don't care and don't see the need for it he d idea who boost. My brothers wife is selling her little Yaris and I have been thinking of downsizing my car. I saw many on the road yesterday and 2 across the road from M's house when I got there. I mentioned it to him, his response 'Yaris is rubbish, get an Alfa...' then onto what his sis is getting. He showed me the book, he test drove it with her wow it's amazing. Told him I know, saw it all on FB. Any way, right in that moment I wanted to walk out. I know he didn't mean it but to brush off my mild excitement and go on about his sis' car hurt me. I'm not materialistic, she can buy whatever she wants but I find it extreme , he s knows I'm not like that. There was mention how good her car will look in his driveway cos she lives there. I wanted to talk to him about the Yaris get his opinion guess I got it, but I didn't expect it like that. Guess I'm just not exciting enough. I actually don't want to see him today. I'm not into material things, expensive things, fancy cars. I'm not gonna change. He knows that, he loves me for it, but of course his sis' stuff takes over.