thank you. I am doing ok. Everything became clear. The things I thought but didn't want to believe I now know are true and correct. I can't believe how easily he manipulates people and always has. He makes you believe something is for your benefit when it is really for his. If you question this you are ungrateful or too sensitive and he is the victim. The issue he has with me is that I've worked him out and I challenge him, he can't handle this. As soon as you do this you are at fault and it's poor him.
anyway, I'm all good Paul. In 2017 I wNt to think about ME, what I want to do, what will make me happy, what's ood for me. Not what he wants me to do and what he thinks is best for me. He is the most irresponsible adult I've ever met, I've never come across anyone like him before, which is good, because his actions and behaviour are not the norm. Normal everyday people do not do what he does. If they did, it would be a disaster.
when he suffered anxiety not so long ago he told me he regretted his behaviour, how he treated people and how his behaviour hurt people. He said God was punishing him. I told him it was Karma. I would love to remind him of that conversation but I know he will abuse me again. It's a shame as I thought he had woken up to himself but a leopard doesn't change its spots. Maybe I will remind him but I my if I'm feeling good and strong.
i hope you are doing ok Paul, hadn't seen you for a while but noticed you've been back.
on a positive note, little miss 3 loved Xmas this year and really understood it. Knew she had to go to bed for Santa to come and when she saw her gifts under the xmas tree she was thrilled. I know Xmas is more than giving gifts but I believe at her age she should enjoy it and she did. His parents didn't even give her a gift, they are a strange lot, that's for sure.