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Forums / Long term support over the journey / Husband left and I feel hopelss

Topic: Husband left and I feel hopelss

  1. Jayne106
    Jayne106 avatar
    55 posts
    28 April 2020 in reply to Sophie_M
    Oh lovely I totally get it but honestly we can do it.
    I haven't cried in days and my boys are so happy.
    I actuslly have met a great man. It is all very new but what a difference!
    It isn't about forgetting the past but we have to look out for things that make us happy.
    Just take a few minutes in the day to find something that was good.
    I know how you feel and so glad we have each other on here as it has always helped me get through.
    Time heaps everything they say... sometimes it would be nice if it didn't take so long. Mine still have book contact with their dad and they are most certainly not interested as he left and they figure he left us all so he can deal with being on his own.
    He makes hardly any effort to contact them and didn't contact me either so we are enjoying the peace from it all.
    The virus makes everything worse and I get that.
    At least by Friday we can have 2 people over. This means we can at least have a coffee with a friend.
    You need to make sure you do this. Keep busy but remember you need down time and don't tire yourself too much.
    I think of you all the time and hope you can smile again and the girls can too. It feels so good to smile and laugh again.... trust me.... it will come xx
  2. MO2TG
    MO2TG avatar
    49 posts
    20 July 2020 in reply to Jayne106
    Hi Jayne
    How are u going these days?
    This COVID deal has made it hard for every one I feel.
    Still in limbo but meeting small goals.
    Seeing counsellor more regularly has helped.
    I'm at peace with who i am.
    Just Struggle with the loss...i know it's grief.
    Enjoyed a girls weekend that was fun.
    Regards Mel

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