Want to share a story about ghosting... or vanishing... I will keep it short.
Early January 2016 I met and fell in love with someone who I thought was it. He said likewise. Built me up so high. Our relationship lasted 2 months or there abouts. He kept standing me up and breaking plans etc.
February 15th was our valentines night as he had flown home from an unexpected FIFO trip.
He gets a phone call while at my house and had to take off FAST as his niece and nephew were in a serious car accident and he rushed to the hospital to rally with family.
From then on, he pretty much stopped talking to me, and also told me his ex wife took off to another state taking their son. He also has that going on. Lawyers etc etc. Chaos. Visits to that state. All that jazz.
NOT TRUE! I have since found out the truth. I was the other woman. His partner HAD A BABY on Feb 15th and that's where he rushed off to. I was cut off, as obviously I had served my purpose. That relationship since ended as well and he has a new partner, and her child - looks like him too.
I believe everything he told me was a lie. They are out there willing to lie, cheat and mislead.
I was an unbelievable mess for 6 months after that wondering what the heck had happened. Eventually I found out. And I hope I never see his lying ugly ass again.