Hello Dear Katey,
You are so right in saying that hating yourself..it’s not helpful...
Katey, It’s hard when we see people who are doing the same uni degree..move ahead of us...but in reality everyone learns at the speed that they can...Although I don’t think speed is the word I’m looking for.,,,There are always going to people that can do things better then us...and always people who are a bit slower in doing/learning things...
The thing is..to never give up on your dream...Keep pushing forward lovely Katey...you can only do your best, and that’s all that counts...
It sad that you feel that you hate yourself for being inadequate...What is being inadequate?...Its only when we start comparing ourselves with others and our expectations of ourself...thinking we should be as good as them...When we are being the best person we can be...and we can’t do better then that..
Be proud of yourself Katey..you are doing a good job...the best job you can..,,How about taking a bit of time for yourself today...have a nice bubble bath...sit in the sun...give yourself a yummy snack...give yourself time to just breathe and enjoy being the wonderful person you are..and we can see..l
My love, care hugs n pats precious lady..
Grandy..