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  1. Birdy77
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    12 May 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach
    My turn to apologise for a double post.

    I just wrote a bit of a long reply and tapped the back-button accidentally, and it was allllllll gaaaawwwn.

    😔

    I don't know if i have the energy to retype it all, but i want to reassure you that this crisis I'm experiencing is nothing to do with mrs b, and that she and the boys have been my rocks that I've clung to in this storm.

    It's to do with my family of origin, which is very broken - but there has been some repairs in the midst of this horrible situation - not sure if they're permanent repairs, but they're certainly ease the hurt at the moment.

    I agree with you about the restrictions , i actually think it would be better if they didn't lift quite so much quite so early ... the pics of criwds going nuts at the shops on the weekend kinda proved that point in my opinion. . But we have no control over what they decide or what others do, just how we behave (unfortunately).

    Not sure what Bear or Owl mean, i read them when i did the quizzes, but have forgotten! Brain not functioning on all cylinders lately.

    Love you, going to post befire i lose it again. Talk soon 💕
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    12 May 2020 in reply to Birdy77

    Darling friend/beautiful b (& a wave to all),

    It’s okay, my friend, gentle & easy does it...though I know it must have been frustrating to accidentally press backspace. It’s very annoying, but it happens...

    mrs b & the boys’ love & support sound like they have been everything to you. I know they support you daily & offer comfort, love & affection. A safe haven of family just for you :)

    I know your relationship with your family of origin is very broken. I know there’s hurt & grief there. Pain...

    There must be so many turbulent emotions around that...difficult, difficult emotions...I’m happy there have been some repairs though, even if they may or may not last.

    At least in the here and now, it’s something, right? Maybe not everything but something...

    Sigh, it will be interesting how things play out as restrictions lift. There are other countries who managed to flatten the curve then had enormous second waves when they lifted restrictions...time will tell what will happen in Australia, I suppose.

    I am holding my hand out to you and thinking of you. I don’t know what has happened, but I know you’re clearly struggling very much, my friend...I know there is sadness and hurt...

    With much love and comfort,

    Pepper xoxox

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    12 May 2020 in reply to Birdy77

    Hello Peppy, Birdy, Deebi...and all..🤗..

    Birdy..my spirit animal I felt drawn to an Eagle 🦅..I feel close to them and have for years admired their beautiful life of freedom and strength...They are such a beautiful bird are free, safe with their nest high on top of the mountains....Where they sit and watch the loveliness and serenity of the natural world...

    Our..well your boys...and my girls..do give a lot of comfort and support to us..They seem to get more clingy and their eyes soften up when I’m having struggles...

    Peppy...I noticed the school in my town was open to the students today...Um their are only around 14 children in the school here..from kindergarten to year 6..and only 3 teachers..very small school...

    I think it can be up to our own selves if we want to go back into the crowded shops or keep ourselves isolated as best we can...until we feel safe..

    Peppy..I know sweetheart that your struggling a lot with isolation..and even when restrictions are lifted..please be very careful...

    I made you both and Mrs B...some orange and poppy seed muffins, with fresh passionfruit icing and also to drink a refreshing..mint, celery, carrot and beetroot sparkling water drink...for your afternoon tea tomorrow..

    I hope you all have a deep restful, refreshing, invigorating sleep tonight..and tomorrow is much better then today was for you...

    Sending some caring hugs, love and hugs..beautiful ladies.. 🤗💜🦋🌹..

    Grandy....

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    12 May 2020 in reply to Ggrand

    Hi gorgeous Grandy (& a wave to all),

    Lovely one, I think fur babies instinctively sense their human friends’ feelings. They know if you’re having a good or bad day. They know...

    I’m glad your precious fur babies have been showering you with love and affection. They must know when you’re struggling a lot...want to be close by...

    I think it will be interesting when schools reopen. As with everything, I suppose there are pros and cons...it might be a little different at the very small school you mentioned though...

    Laughs, even if I wanted to, I shouldn’t (& won’t be) be running amok as restrictions lift...I feel it’s not just about me or what I want or need, because my actions will have consequences, not just for me but for the people around me...

    So the question is what kind of consequence or outcome do I want?

    I have to think about other people too. I feel it’s not just about me, as much as I want it to be...

    Besides, due to the nature of my work, I really shouldn’t be running amok any time soon. We have had cases & some of my colleagues are in isolation due to exposure. It’s not a surprise though...shrugs, comes with the nature of our work.

    As for me, I could very well bring it m home one day without realising it, so I really can’t go out & see a whole bunch of people any time soon...even if I wanted to, I shouldn’t.

    Sigh, yet some people I know are planning worrying big get togethers already...I can’t be bothered arguing with them anymore...I am over it.

    Thank you for thinking of me, lovely one. The orange and poppyseed muffins sound divine. I look forward to my scrumptious afternoon tea :)

    Hugs and love xoxo

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    26 May 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach
    Hey there my beautiful friend ❤ hello gorgeous Grandy and everyone here,

    I have been thinking of you & hoping that you are doing ok. Hanging in there as you miss your friends & family & your social buzz?

    I read somewhere that you lost a client & i am so sorry to hear that. It must have been very confronting & very sad.

    You have had to go through a lot with your work, caring for vulnerable clients, & adapting to WFH, amongst the other challenges.

    I hope that the other personal things that have been going on are maybe? slowly? slightly resolving themselves? or maybe not .... if you want to talk about anything .... i know it is hard to ... but i hope you know i am totally here, & always listening very attentively.

    Hey Grandy! Thank you so much for your always lovely, caring words! You're amazing! Your unbelievably refreshing combo of mint, celery, carrot & beetroot sparkling water drink was so creative & inspiring! I feel like making one right this second. Thanks for being such a caring & beautiful, nurturing presence on these forums, you have a very pure heart ❤

    Oh boy, i am feeling very weary. So many emotional up s and downs lately. I will come & probs talk on my thread i think, i find it hard, as you know. But i feel like blurting out a lot of feelings I've been holding.

    Have you been doing anything awesome lately? I read that you've been using some iso time to get some creative juices flowing. That's great! Have you done any more on your canvases that you were preparing? I think you had painted backgrounds & then had started drawing on top? Any head way on the commissions?

    I've continued getting some jobs done here with my mate, but he's also started back with some building work, so there are a few jobs half finished, they'll get done eventually. One great one is we were able to convert an old water-well, from before there was town water, into a working rainwater tank! I hope i haven't told you this before? I whooped for joy when water came gushing out the hose onto the veggie patch! The pressure is stronger than the normal tap & i was there yelling to him "can ya turn it off now please, it's like a fire hose!" Got to get a trigger nozzle then all will be under control!!

    Just wanted to check in with you and send love, talk more soon ❤

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    27 May 2020 in reply to Birdy77

    Darling friend/beautiful b (& a wave to all),

    My friend, I’m gently holding my hand out to you. I know you’ve been struggling & hurting. You sound very drained & tired, lovely friend...

    I can imagine the deep swirl of emotions in your head...& heart...I read about your Mum & I’m so very sorry about what is happening.

    That must be really hard on you...I can’t remember if you’re much of a hugger or not, but here’s one from me if you are...

    It sounds like you’re wanting to let some thoughts or feelings out...to talk about some of those feelings, even if you don’t find it easy writing about them. As you know, I’m always here for you & your thread is always here too...

    I know you may prefer to write on your own thread, & that’s of course okay, but do you want to talk about what has been going on?

    If you don’t want to do that or if it’s too hard, that’s okay, I’m simply giving you the option ;)

    Gentle & easy does it....

    Alternatively, would you like to tell me about some of your home/gardening projects or what you have been up to lately instead?

    Your rainwater tank sounds like it was an absolute success story, even if it needs a bit of tweaking with a trigger nozzle. Well done! It must have been so exciting the first time using it on your garden :)

    Thank you so much for the love & support, & for thinking of me, lovely friend.

    I’m trying to get reacquainted with my old friend, Resilience. I think it’s something that will serve me well, especially lately, if I remember to work on it...

    Some situations, I can’t change, but I can work on my capacity to cope...it’s my coping capacity that will make all the difference, I believe.

    I think the most awesome things that I’ve been “doing” is clarifying my priorities in life.

    I’ve continued to draw & sometimes paint. Those are stabilising forces in my life, & I’m also exploring how to use it to make some extra income as well.

    I am thinking of you. I am here for you. You’re welcome to write here any time (if you wish)..

    I value hearing about your life, your thought & feelings, your home projects, your garden, your dreams, your boys, etc...I value hearing anything that matters to you, whatever that may be, my friend

    What have you been doing lately?

    With love xoxox


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    19 June 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach

    Hello Peppy and Birdy...

    I hope it’s okay to ask you both...RUOK?..

    I sent this to Mrs Dools a few weeks back and would like to send it to both of you..It’s a beautiful Apache blessing. I think is so beautiful...and I would like to give this blessing to you as well....and I hope so much it brings you both some peaceful calmness to you.....

    May The Sun Bring You New Energy By Day,

    May The Moon Softly Restore You By Night,

    May The Rain Wash Away Your Worries,

    May The Breeze Blow New Strength Into Your Being,

    May You Walk Gently Through The World And Know Its Beauty All The Days Of Your Life.

    ~ Apache Blessing

    Always here..with my friendship, love, care, and hugs..💜🦋🤗.

    Grandy..

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    27 June 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach
    Hello beautiful friend, hello gorgeous Grandy,

    Grandy thank you for that beautiful blessing you sent. It is absolutely lovely and i treasure it.

    Beautiful friend, i hope you are ok and taking care if yourself.

    Resilience can be exhausting, so please make sure to recharge your batteries with some self nurturing.

    I had to make an urgent trip to Melbourne, we nearly lost Mum. Mum is making a remarkable recovery, but it has been a very very intense few weeks.

    Hope to talk to you soon, and really hope that you are ok.

    Love, b xoxo
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    Hi lovely people,

    Gorgeous Grandy: Thank you so much for the beautiful blessing. I know it came with love and care.

    Thank you for thinking of me and sharing a little of your heart with me. That’s truly special, lovely one.

    I have a lot going on. Both personal and covid-19 related. Though the personal stuff is actually worse at the moment, and the whole pandemic thing is just the icing on the cake

    Thank you so much for the love and care, lovely one xoxo

    Darling friend/beautiful b: what a stressful, scary and worrying time it must have been for you and your family.

    You must have been so frightened and overwhelmed. So many emotions...

    I’m so relieved your mum survived. I hope and wish with all my heart that she continues on the recovery trajectory...this is a very scary time...

    I am sending love, hugs and warmth to you and your mum.

    Thinking of you, my friend. You’re in my heart. Come here to talk any time if you want (absolutely no pressure of course) xoxox


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    29 June 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach

    Hi dear Peppystar ☘ Tweety 🐥 Grandy 👩‍❤️‍👩 and everyone 👋

    Hi dear Peppy it sounds like your lifes pretty full on atm hun.

    I think love and care very much about you darl. Wonder how you're doing.

    Just popping my head in to send my love and support to you and our dear Tweety 😊 Ahh darlin sounds very hard what you're goin through too. I too am wishing for good recovery for your poor Mum.

    Grandy love that was a beautiful piece of writing you left. I copied and saved it ⚘

    Peppy I really hope you're finding your way through the dull/dark cloud you're such a gentle beautiful person. Pleasure knowing and loving all of you 😊

    Take good care lovely ones. Always 👀🤝🤗🤗🤗

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    12 July 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach

    Hello everyone

    just dropping bye to say hello and see how everyone is,

    Pepper your words always make me think and I like the way you encourage others with your wisdom and strength,.

    Hope you and everyone is coping.
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    What a lovely, kind thread this is... I would like to join the conversation. 🌼
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    13 July 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach

    Hello Dear Peppy and Birdy......🧸🤗..

    Im just calling in because I’ve been thinking about you both today...Even though we have never your hearts have touched mine with friendship and care...and I just wanted to let you both know that I’m sitting with you both...in silence...and wishing as much as I can wish that your doing okay...and looking after yourselves as much as you can....

    No need to reply sweet ladies...just close your eyes and feel the love and care that we all have for you....

    If I could...I would post a picture of a blue sky, with fluffy white clouds that are gently floating across the universe with some golden words written on them that says....” “You’re both beautiful, your both loved, your both needed...You’re both stronger then you think...you’re both going to get through this...and all your friends here are going to hold your hands until until you do”....💓..

    Sending you both warm gentle caring hugs....lots of care..kind wishes and a soft fluffy cuddly teddy bear 🧸...full of gentle calming lavender scent...

    Please stay safe beautiful people...

    Grandy....

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    13 July 2020 in reply to Ggrand

    Grandy,

    what a lovely post with kind words,

    quirky

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    22 July 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach
    Dear beautiful friend and every gorgoeous person here 💕
    Grandy, thank you for your beautiful wirds, your thoughts and care are apprecaited so much!❤

    Aunty Deebs, you are special and always lovely to see you and your awesomeness ❤

    broken568, you have arrived at a special place full of care and love, welcome ❤

    Hey quirky, i hope you are ok and managing with everything that life is throwing your way, you are a strong and compassionate soul ❤

    Dear friend - i have been thinking of you a lot, and wondering how things have been for you the last weeks.

    I didn't like reading about how tough things were in your personal life, and i really hope that you are taking immense care of yourself.

    On top of all of that i know you have a heck of a lot going on with work-related covid19, and i am sending so many good vibes your wayabout this. I have been a little close some of this also the last little bit, being in a hospital in Melbourne, so i can only start to imagine how all this is affecting you on a daily basis.

    I just want you to know that i am thinking of you and sending you many loving vibes.

    If you would like to offload, or just chat about anything at all, you can see you have many fans and friends, and i am one of them 💕

    Love, b xo

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    Hi caring people,

    Wonderful DB: thank you so much for thinking of me & for the love & warmth.

    I wholeheartedly agree that gorgeous Grandy write beautifully. She writes from her heart...and it shows :)

    Sending you a warm lemon drizzle cake & thermos of hot tea.

    Super duper soul hugs from your top student xoxo

    Quirky: Thank you to you too for your beautiful words of encouragement. They meant a lot.

    You have been through so much this year, especially because of your loss & trauma from the bushfires, yet here you are...still supporting & encouraging us.

    I know you once said that helping others helps you too, but still...what a generous & compassionate heart you have...

    Thank you for being here & for your kindness xoxo

    broken568: I would like to join the other lovely people here to extend a warm welcome to you.

    Your post made me smile so thank you so very much. I’m happy that you have found this thread to be full of kindness.

    Please know, you are most welcome to join in here any time. It is an honour & our pleasure to have you here with us xoxo

    Gorgeous Grandy: firstly, congratulations on your new CC status!

    I smiled as I wrote that. I’m very happy for you & also for the community. You have so much love to give..

    New beginnings! Well done!

    Thank you very much for sitting with us. Your compassion & company is always welcome.

    What an absolutely heartfelt post. I felt your words in my heart.

    Love, hugs & care xoxo

    Darling friend/beautiful b: my beautiful friend, I know it has been a very scary & difficult time for you. I’ve been worried about you...

    I understand & respect if you don’t want to talk about it. But how was your hospital visit to see your mum?

    As I said, if you don’t want to talk about it, I understand. I’m simply saying I’m listening & here for you, my friend. Gently holding a hand out to you...

    Alternatively, would you like to talk about something else- how has life been for you lately?

    I have some family issues & personal issues, which hasn’t been so great.

    Work is just exacerbating things. We have lost multiple clients to covid now. Clients aren’t family & they’re not friends but there’s a feeling of heaviness & foreboding. It’s a feeling that is hard to put in words.

    We’re now preparing for a potential second wave. My personal opinion is we should provide face shields to the frontline staff but that’s a whole other conversation.

    I’m holding out my hand to you & thinking of you, lovely mrs b & the rest of your family.

    With much love xoxox

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    Hello beautiful friend, and all friends here 💕

    I'm so sorry you've had a really challemging time at work and more importantly in your personal life.

    Sometimes when things are crap at home, work can be a respite, and vice versa.

    But i know that is not the case for you at the moment , as it's hard, every which way.

    Things were going ok for me ... trying to get back on my feet after Melbourne ... but have taken a turn for worse this weekend. Mum is sick again, as of today. i don't know what might happen. I will try keep in touch with you. Sometimes it's hard.

    I think of you heaps.

    Let me know how you are?

    b xoxo
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    Darling friend/beautiful b (& a wave to all),

    It has been a while, lovely friend. My thoughts are with you, your family & your mum. I feel this period of uncertainty and waiting must be so scary, distressing and upsetting...the whole “not knowing”...

    Sigh, I remember your mum was doing better for a little while too but now this...I’m so sorry, my friend. I’m sending love & blessings to you & your beautiful mum.

    Let me know how things are going if you like? But of course, absolutely no pressure if you’re not feeling up to writing...gentle & easy does it.

    Thank you for sending me your love & support. I’m grateful for your friendship. I’ve been very busy & very stressed. A lot of it is manifesting as anger, which probably isn’t such a good thing.

    I’m managing the personal issues as best I can, but dealing with covid related things at work on top is exhausting & sometimes just outright infuriating. It’s draining.

    But I suppose this unusual time in the world is also making me think about some things. To perhaps clarify my priorities & reflect on what I want out of life, as well as the world that I would like to see around me. I haven’t figured out anything concrete yet though.

    Things that have given me pause and made me think...

    The BLM movement. How a casualised workforce tends to benefit employers more at the end of the day. Issues in aged care. Etcetera. Etcetera.

    I don’t believe any of those things raise wholly “new” issues. They’re associated with old, long standing issues that existed well before covid, but it’s just that now people are (hopefully) more aware...if nothing else...

    I’m thinking of you, and whenever you have time (and only if you feel up to it), let me know how you’re doing...

    Holding my hand out to you to offering comfort and a gentle hug xoxox


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    16 August 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach

    Beautiful gentle Peppystar ☘ Tweety 🐣 Grandy 👩‍❤️‍👩 and everyone hi ☺

    Dear Peppy hi there lovey 😊 sadly it sounds like you're very in need of this perpetual awesomeness hug 🤗

    Now darlin before you absorb it's incredible warmth, feelings of complete calm reaching every part of your body enveloping you in 🕊 peace there's something you need to do our sweet friend.

    Take my hand 🤝 darlin Peppy come on lovey over here and sit nice and close to your Aunty Deebi...wait up I'll just quickly bake a cake 🍞..oops...sandwich ok? and change hats..ahh there it is...👒....there...now I want you to clear your mind completely of everything that's stressing you lovely ..we're going to 🏌️‍♀️send those suckers for a 4. No wait up that's Cricket 🏏

    Ok so I've made you a lovely warm because it's winter...summer cocktail 🍹loaded with hundreds of squeaky clean good feelings and memory bubbles 🗨

    First up sweet lady I need you to please breathe in nice and slowly ... good girl...yip nice and deeply...that's it keep holding my hand lovey I'll never let go...good.. good... filling your lungs that pushes all the nasties.. pain and stress out of your body.
    The rest will leave when you gently breathe out all the darkness...worry about nothing at all ...

    So my lovely please do...
    ... "In with the Sun 🌞out with the ⛈ rain"...
    .....5 times..... absolutely no hurry darl just relax on breathing out...feel the muscles around your neck softening...feeling only peace Peppy...tranquility...speaking in a liquid smooth sleepy voice...😴...oop that was embarrassing sorry fell asleep...
    Your only focus is on breathing darlin.

    So with each sip these nifty bubbles gently dance upon your tongue with the most amazing fruity summer flavours softly pop while a zap of positive energy bursts out reminding you of happy memories being with people you love people who care about you including your many amazeballs friends here who now have wrapped their arms around you filling your soul only with good happy thoughts and calm.

    I really hope things settle for you gorgeous lady.

    Tweety our beautiful I'd like you to share that dwinky with Peppy because you're going hard too honeyheart 💗

    Sending an abundance of love 💗bubbles and great memories of you dreaming about me nicking some more choccy 🍫...as if 🙄

    Hold in there darlin. Each second brings on change ⚘🌱

    Much love care and thoughts all of you 🤗😚⚘🍃☘🐣👩‍❤️‍👩

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    19 August 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach
    Dear lovely friend,

    So great to hear from you. I have been thinking of you a lot, and really hoping that you're holding up ok.

    Life sounds hectic and stressful for you at the moment, and no doubt it will continue that way for your worklife for a while - i really, truly hope that thjngs will calm down for you at home soon (by which i mean, your personal life) ... please offload at any time if you feel it might help.

    I don't think anger is a bad thing at all. It just is. And it's a necessary emotion sometimes. Again, if you want to offload, I'm listening.

    Are you making some time for the things that nurture you, through your draeing/art/expressive movement/dance? Don't forget to give those important things time and space, especially during this kinda wretched time generally.

    I feel like there's lots to catch up on ... where to start?! I baked a carrot cake tonight. Is that a good place to start? 🤷🏼‍♀️

    Aunty Deebs, i joined in on the yummy dwinky🍹and also the lovely breathing, and listening to your smooth, liquid voice that you fell asleep to 🤣 thank you as always for being awesome.

    😘😘😘
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    Hi lovely people,

    Wonderful DB:

    Thank you so very much for the hug & for spending some time here with me :) How special & lovely is it to see you here.

    Your homemade summer cocktail was delicious & refreshing. I absolutely loved it!

    “In with the sun & out with the rain” is a lovely mantra for breathing exercises. It made me smile & is very soothing. Thank you so much for that.

    But about the choccies...just you wait for that expensive invoice! I don’t know how they keep “magically” finding their way to you...

    Much love & extra special super soul hugs xoxo

    Beautiful friend/darling b: lovely friend, you have been in my thoughts & I often wonder how you are doing. I know that 2020 has been a very, very difficult year for you, my friend.

    It means a lot that you’re here, sending your love & support, despite all that you’re going through personally. What a blessing you are in my life.

    That carrot cake sounds scrumptious! I particularly like carrot cake with thick icing...

    What have you been up to lately?

    How are your beautiful boys, your garden, etc? I’m interested to know how things are in your world is what I’m saying :)

    Sigh, work is hectic as expected. It was always a difficult job, but the pandemic has just made things even more difficult.

    I think most of my workmates & management feel pretty drained as well, so we are all collectively stressed (chuckles). But, of course it’s also very hard for clients...

    Thank you for the gentle, loving reminder to do things that nourish me. I know it comes from a good, caring place.

    I think, at the moment, it’s a combination of sheer grit combined with moments of self care that is helping. Also, I’ve been very careful with how I use my time lately. For example, in the offline realm, I’ve only been making time for friendships that feel meaningful to me, & not just “any” random person.

    I haven’t had much motivation to draw lately. I think it has a lot to do with just feeling drained in general.

    But, as I said, how have you been?

    Thinking of you...

    With love xoxox

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  22. Birdy77
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    27 September 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach
    Hello beautiful friend,

    I am popping by this evening to say hello and send some love.

    You have been on my mind, so wanted to let you know that.

    You are important to me and i will come and talk to you, i have found it hard the last bit, judt to know how to say anything?

    Love. To all ❤

    b xo
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    3 November 2020 in reply to Peppermintbach
    Hello my Friend ❤

    I have been thinking of you and wondering how life has been going for you lately?

    Is work still hectic & draining? I wonder if things have calmed down at all. I hope you are taking care and looking after you.

    Are you reading lately? I haven't been, couldn't concentrate for ages. But i just borrowed a novel by Richard Russo from the library today to see if i can get into something.

    I started watching Schitt's Creek (season 1) ... and i am really enjoying it! Have you watched it? I love the character David! I get a few lols every episode, gotta love those.

    I think of you often, and miss talking with you. Your "Paris Maple" is going gangbusters, just to let you know. We are having stacks of rain, and then beautiful sunny days, so the garden is loving that. I've been working really hard in the garden today, and aching muscles, which is good. It's been my saviour a few times lately, felt myself spiralling a bit at times, i am so blessed to have it to fall into.

    Feel like these sentences are not too smashing, soooo, might sign off for now and send my love, and to let you know i am thinking of you xoxoxo

    b xoxoxo

    Dear Aunty Deebs , thank you as always for your awesomeness🌞, Aunty Grandz, sending love to the bbffs 😃
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    3 November 2020 in reply to Birdy77

    Hi there dear Peppystar ☘ Tweety 🐥 and all ☺

    Sweet gentle Peppy I just wanted you to know dear friend that you've often been in my thoughts and wanted you to know that lovely one ☺

    I hope works settling for you. I know you've been very stressed. Hoping that's settling darlin.

    Good on you spending worthwhile friendship time. Good call.

    Just hope your lifes good lovey. You deserve Peppy 🤗

    Please take good care huns you mean a lot to many 💗

    Love always and care dear girl 🤗 super good hugs 🤝

    Hello sweety little Tweety you too are very welcome and same goes for you that awesomeness is pretty cool.

    Lots of love 💗 and care to you too beautiful. Hope you're doing better too hun. Good seeing you around 🤗

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  25. startingnew
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    27 January 2021 in reply to Peppermintbach

    Hi Peps

    Hope your going ok

    💚🧡💜

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  26. Moonstruck
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    30 January 2021 in reply to startingnew

    Hi Peppermint

    It's been a long time..and I've changed a lot since we last crossed paths. What's been happening with you? Are your musings still sad? All mine are these days it seems.

    I've had some physical injuries which are taking a long time to heal and a big toll on my state of mind.

    My longtime partner died 8 months ago and I no longer know who I am. I am living on another planet and have no road map or directions for this strange place.

    Happy memories turn sad in an instant. Beauty and joy and my ocean are there but just out of my reach. My body hurts too much to walk there...i miss it so much.My smiles and laughter with friends are all plastic..fake. I wonder how they can't see that. So very very tired...

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  27. startingnew
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    1 February 2021 in reply to Moonstruck
    Hi Moon


    its been a while since ive spoken with you or been here too. Im sorry to hear about your partner passing away, sending lots of love to you. Theres no right or wrong way to grieve, just take it at your pace and ask for help anytime you need. Remember there will be good and bad days. Prepare for those days when you know itll be extra tough.


    I also know the challenges of having physical ailments that take a toll on us mentally. Feel free to talk to me anytime. Its one of the things I constantly battle with with chronic illnesses/injuries.
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  28. startingnew
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    25 July 2021

    Hey Peppergirl

    Hope your ok, thinking of you often

    xox

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