Been seeing this woman on and off for 6 months been a few red flags but I'm not healthy and have warped views on the world so tell myself it's probably more my sensitivity etc to things
Two days ago her daughter was very sick (20f) and asked if I could bring over a rapid test....so I did...and showed her how to do it...it came up positive immediately...so my partner, daughter/son and his partner all went and got pcr tests (they live together).
Theyre all positive. So I told work I was there 10 mins and they said I need a negative pcr to return...which is fine I can do that.
But my partner became abusive last night, messaging me demanding that I come over and stay with her, calling me names in messages and giving me an ultimatum that if I don't come its over.
I responded that it's unfair of her to ask me to come into a household that's covid positive and put my health at risk....she continued to berate me....calling me names and telling me too pack her bags its over.
I said I'm not debating you, you're being selfish and asking me to put my health at risk.
Her daughter was so ill she was going to take her to hospital....and I don't feel its fair to put me in that position.
These outbursts and other red flags are becoming a pattern, and I've told her that I need to walk away for my own health etc
She apologised last night for her behaviour, said she was stressed etc but the abuse I received I won't accept...I've told her its over for now