dear Kree, thank you for posting on the forum, with a very sad and upsetting comment.
Your emotionally abusive husband who enjoys himself with other women, I could never personally believe what he has to say when he says 'it's ended' or 'I haven't sent any videos', he's been caught.
What I'm about to say may sound to be stupid on my part, but I caught my wife (ex) ringing from a public phone box, not once but 3 times, and the stupid part is that we still talk and see each other on family occasions, but when I caught her the first time I was border line to breaking down, it would have happened, but probably started much quicker, but I never trusted her again, although she refused to admit anything.
Trust is a main priority for me and if it's tarnished once I would move on.
We all tell lies we all know this, but when the person who we are in love with, sleep with and have sexual relations with, then honesty and trust means so much.
All of us are attracted to someone and instantly fall in love with them, but it's only platonic.
I can't tell you what to do, but I could advice or suggest what to do, but I don't think I need to say. L Geoff. x