dear Dee, thank you for posting this personal message to us.
I have not had the experience of IVF but all I know is what has been televised on TV, and I do I have any 'friends' try and conceive by this,however what I have learnt is that it's a difficult and trying to have to have a child this way.
Sno has said some good remarks back to you, that your husband feels as though he has been a failure, and by feeling this way it creates depression, which I can understand, but he's not, he feels as though he is in capable of providing enough sperm, but there could be many reasons why it has been unsuccessful, and the answer to those I have no answer.
Depression makes us say comments that aren't true, and we really don't mean how we are thinking, so all I can say is wait until his medication has been reviewed, but this won't change him instantly, because he needs so much to talk to a psychologist.
Deep down he loves you, I can see it from my side, but please keep in contact with us. L Geoff. x