I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 9.
We are having big issues in our relationship and he wants to separate.
I have done things in the past I have lied and my jealousy gets in the way a lot. I handle those situations very badly, I have apologised for these things but still brings them up every argument we have. He can’t get past it.
But everything that is wrong in our relationship is my fault, he thinks I’m manipulative and a narcissist.
He wants space so he has asked me to leave our family home but being in a remote town there is v limited options for other accommodation so resorting to having to live in a caravan.
I feel so lost, stuck and alone I have no family support or many friends where we are. I’m not able to leave as he won’t let me take the kids away, on the same token I don’t want to take them away from their Dad.
We can’t have a proper talk without it blowing up.
I want to make this relationship work but he thinks this is not going to work as I keep doing the same stuff over and over. He has said he’s done and it’s over. I don’t know what to do.
I am speaking to a counsellor to change the way I handle things that come up but he keeps saying it’s all to late.
Any advice would be great.