dear Amanda, this is a fear that anyone would not like, someone trying to take your partner away, and in this case your
partner, so these are a few issues here; do you know this person who is trying to entice your partner; and why does
your partner want to talk to her; and why did this contact ever happen.
You need to get an answer from your partner, but the problem is he may not tell you the truth and unfortunately he won't
as he may want '2 eggs in the basket', that is have you as well as have her, and under no circumstances this would not be
an acceptable situation.
People love one person in a relationship/marriage but both of you like many other people just like we all do, but that
doesn't mean that they have daily contact with them suggesting more advice or itimate contact, because that's broken
trust, and trust carries so much weight here and in any marriage/relationship.
You don't only have to get an answer from her but you need an answer from him, but contact with her maybe impossible
so the weight lies with your partner, such as him texting her, emailing her, but there are places he can do this
without your knowledge.
Personally if my partner/wife started doing this then I would never trust them, just as my ex-wife did by contacting
someone using a public phone, not once but three times, and who she said she was ringing were lies. Geoff. x