So proud of individuals like you that struggle to be themselves in a judgemental world.
As a hetro older man I don’t have any experiences that can help. However I can offer an opinion.
I think it will become easier as you get older. People’s opinion won’t matter as much and your sexuality and views will mature whereby you’ll become more of a full person of who you are. During that evolve you’ll one day say to yourself “I’m going to be who I am and I don’t care what others think and... my world only includes those that accept me 100%”
As for your family, we’d all enjoy total acceptance but in reality it rarely is the case. In effect you have two choices- 1/ not to have any expectations of acceptance, keep your distance and live them by doing what they are not doing, accept them for who they are b/ go all out being yourself regardless of their (or anyone else’s) views.
Only you can make that choice.
I have a friend that is very religious and believes if I wasn’t an atheist I’d be cured of my bipolar. I can tolerate him. But I had another friend that never asks how I am nor there if I needed him- I severed the friendship.
We all have choices.
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