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Topic: My morning

5 posts, 0 answered
  1. Sadjazzy
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    26 June 2019
    I woke up today instantly reminded of one of the most sadest things that’s happened to me, to others this may be small and stupid but this really breaks my heart


    I woke up today also reminded about the fact I can’t tell the person I love how upset I am how depressed I feel I can’t get comfort from him or anything to do with support for myself otherwise it’ll just make things worse


    I woke up today realising I don’t have anyone to talk to about this or they’ll just say he’s a dickhead and I should break up with him but they don’t know the full story and I don’t want to talk about it I just want support about my problem now


    I woke up today crying on my bed alone wondering what can I even do about this I felt alone depressed like I have no support and if I ever will ..
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  2. MissBenthos
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    26 June 2019 in reply to Sadjazzy

    Hi sadjazzy,

    You have my support. Reaching out is hard so these forums can be a great place to start.

    If something has broken your heart and makes you sad to think about - it’s significant. No matter what anyone else thinks, we can’t tell you how you should feel about something. Even if we don’t share the same feelings over it - your feelings are valid.

    I’m unsure of the situation you’re in so I don’t know what type of advice to send your way. If it’s possible for you; seeing a doctor/psychologist/counsellor could help you to navigate some of these tough feelings. And you are welcome to continue using this forum for support. I’m happy to listen and keep you company.

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  3. Camellias
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    26 June 2019 in reply to Sadjazzy

    Hi Sadjazzy

    I may not be the best person for advice, as I am struggling also, but I still wanted to come into your thread and say hello.

    I understand what it is like to have no support- I’m quite isolated. Lucky to have the internet so I can return to BB for daily company or just another post to say ‘ your not alone’.

    it sounds like an incredibly painful situation to be in. It’s so hard when we feel such strong things and have to withhold them, whether out of fear of rejection or any valid reason known to us, it’s a heavy weight to carry and so what can do but cry.

    Im on day 7 of no contact with the person I love most in this world and all I want is their love, support and to be held, once again knowing I am her world, I cry when I realise it isn’t happening, not because of me or anything I’ve done.

    what a lovely reply from MissBenthos, I hope you know that as much as your hurting, someone was there to reach out to you.

    You are important. I hope you receive lots of support here.

    🌺

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  4. MissBenthos
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    26 June 2019 in reply to Camellias
    Thanks camellias :) here for you too xo
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  5. Camellias
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    81 posts
    26 June 2019 in reply to MissBenthos

    Thank you, that means a lot to me

    I’m sure you have your own life struggles to work through too

    🌺

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