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Topic: Staying/Getting/Doing Well – Moving goalposts or fixed target?

  1. demonblaster
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    19 August 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Pawsy 🐾 hi and to everyone including readers 👋

    Yip ditto the cooler weathers so much easier to sleep in. Being rugged up securely in comfort and warmth is da bomb. When we were little bubs we were safe warm assuming comfy in our Mums tums which may add security to bed as well.

    Heats so uncomfortable yet many love it. Icky...they can have our share

    Good girl Pawsy it's major steps doing small things not that I see them as small but you I'm sure know what I'm saying and I'll stop there else I'll get more twisted 😅 trying to over explain because beastys playing but I'm starting to see things more clearly woot!

    If when you're up to ...that is when I get there 😂...planning very soon today/tomoz-ish to post in Addictions thread. I'm having some breakthroughs thanks to mania.

    How you goin with the jab darl?

    It's a lift having change I find although somes very hard for many people we adapt eventually. This change is great...new plants. Potting them and seeing them grow would be satisfying I'd think. So you like flowers nature I imagine yes living where you do and gardening?

    I'm going to walk soon for wrong but ok reason for now. Be talking sometime in my thread.

    Hope the rain settled lovey. It's got it's uses for sure and it's nice at times for various reasons. Needed of course but can be a downer and so restricting for long periods of time as you know.

    Can hear the birdies singing merrily. The most beautiful music for the most...dog barking sounds like a big boy like brave Woofa 🍗 he'll be sharing that bone with me of course and we might consider giving you 1 small bite 😄 and cars...main Rd here..in the process of getting use to traffic sound ...clearly most which I knew don't do their 50 km grr.

    Hope you enjoy your day dear Pawsy friend ☺🤗💗🕊🐾⚘

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    27 August 2021 in reply to demonblaster

    Hello Deebi, Grandy, wave to everyone,

    Well here we are a week later & the mouse saga continues... I never leave food out so have been trying to work out what they are eating... I discovered what last night... Woofa's food comes in 15kg bags... the tub I have for it only holds 10kg ... so I leave the last bit in the foil lined bag & roll it up (beside the tub) to keep it fresh... I had looked at the bag before & couldn't see anything... but last night I actually unrolled it (to tip it in the tub)... the bag resembled swiss cheese there were so many holes nibbled in it... they had chewed their way in through the ends of the roll... I'm really surprised because I had thought the foil lining would be mouse proof... nope big time!!... now I understand why there are so many...

    I am still trying to do things about the house in small bits... my body isn't happy with me as I am walking around looking like an old woman bent over like a question mark & my carpal tunnel has flared along with my foot giving me grief... but I am still trying...

    Really pleased with me this arvo... I spent 2hrs outside on my verandah potting up & repotting plants... there were storms forecast & the clouds have been black, but no rain yet... I checked back to see when I had mentioned repotting some plants... embarrassingly it was in May... well they are finally done now... still need to finish potting up the last of the new plants I got online... still I'm pleased I managed to be outdoors for so long.

    Woofa would be very happy to share a bone with you Deebi...you would leap to the top of his favourite humans... all bones are banned here until we get on top of the mice...

    Sending hugs to everyone

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  3. Hanna3
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    27 August 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hi. Paws and everyone

    Wow paws you sound really industrious! Good on you for potting the plants and doing stuff around the house! I hope you reward yourself with a nice cuppa and bikkie afterwards!

    Oooh the mice sound horrendous! And they've chewed into the dog food bag!, Ugh!

    I think you're doing amazingly well Paws I truly do. Well done you!

    I've been terribly slack around the house again lately but I think it's because the house is so cold inside so it's not nice to stay indoors. Anyway that's my excuse!

    Pats to Woofa whose food has been eaten by the mice! 😗🐾🐕💕

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    10 September 2021

    Hello Everyone,

    Yet again I have tried & failed to do something... I really pushed myself today to get outside & mow... after 20 minutes I gave up as the mower wouldn't start... it rrr'd but wouldn't catch... now I have to buy a battery charger... if that doesn't fix it then back to the mower shop.

    So another wasted day... yes I did check the mower manual to see what type of charger I need... but did I go & buy one... no... did I whipper snipper...no... did I do anything useful... no... I wish I could work out how to stop stressing over something pointlessly & actually push through... it's as if I focus everything so much to push myself to do that one thing then I can't change course.

    Rain for the next few days so no mowing weather until I don't know when

    Hugs to everyone

    Paws

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  5. Hanna3
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    10 September 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hi Paws!

    I know that feeling! Sometimes it's so hard to get motivated and one thing going wrong can just be too much.

    I think it's to do with being alone too. You think, what's the point? Nobody cares anyway.

    I think that's what happens to me anyway.

    Depression/apathy sets in!

    Years ago when I was working in a very repetitive boring job with a few people we all used to say we suffered from "terminal apathy". I think it's a bit like that?

    So don't feel bad you're in good company!

    Another day will be better. There's no great rush.

    Hugs from me and Sam watching a Nirvana DVD! 🙂🐕🐾

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    11 September 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hello Paws, Hanna and everyone..

    I can join you both with that feeling..

    I think once our minds are set in doing something that needs to be done...we get our mindset on that one chore..then something goes wrong and we can’t get it done...Then our thought pattern gets interrupted and we cannot motivate it to do another job...very frustrating..

    Thats okay Paws...all in your own time..When your up to it you will go get that battery charger and be more prepared and confident that your lawn mower will start and your lawn will get a haircut....

    Be gentle on yourself lovely lady...

    I hope you can sit on your veranda and enjoy the watching and listening to the rain....Have you noticed that most of the birds seem to disappear in the Rain?...

    Enjoy your day everyone....

    Kind thoughts

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    12 September 2021 in reply to Ggrand

    Hello Hanna, Grandy, wave to everyone,

    It looks like I won't be getting my front verandah finished later this year... nor probably early next year... it might not happen now til the following summer as I have raided the money I was putting away again... I decided yesterday I just couldn't keep trying to sleep on my old mattress... it is well past it's use by date & so uncomfortable... I gave in & ordered a new one online... it should arrive hopefully by the end of the month. I am amazed at how much some mattresses were on sale for... who would pay over $6000 for a double bed mattress???... & that was in the mainstream shops I looked at... the boutique shops were even higher.... I bought the cheapest spring mattress I could find... apart from adding some extra layers of padding I fail to see what extra they can do when making a mattress that warrants any of the higher prices.

    Now I need to think of what to do with my old mattress... there is a company that collects them to recycle but as I live rural it would cost me $125 to get them to pick it up...so that is a no... I could take it to the tip for $40 but I'm tossing up trying to recycle most of it at home... there are quite a few sites online on ways to do that & uses for the bits it is made up of. Hmmm.... well I have a few weeks until the new one arrives, so I will have time to explore & ponder which way I will go. Turning it into an outside dog bed is one idea.

    Grandy one thing I have noticed is the fairy wrens still use my bird bathe to take baths even on very cold days... like you I have noticed how birds disappear when it rains & I have always just assumed birds prefer to find a dryish place in a tree & wait the wet weather out... not the fairy wrens here & yet they are so small & frail looking.

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    12 September 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hello Paws, and everyone...

    I think you done the right thing in buying a new mattress... We had our last mattress for over 25 years...and bought a new one just before hubby was diagnosed...and I was astounded at the prices of them...Hopefully with your new mattress you will awaken more pain free then you have been...

    Thats a good idea to check on you tube different ways to recycle the old one...I hope you find something that you will like and be able to do....

    I don’t have many fairy wrens here...yet I did in my other home that I sold 7 years ago...only 9 kilometres from here..but I do have lots of Willy Wagtails that I enjoy watching...and can be funny sometimes....

    I’m sorry that your veranda won’t get done for a while now...I hope one day soon you can do what needs doing their....

    Take care of yourself Paws....You are an important person to me and so many more here in this caring community..

    Hugs..🤗..from me and my fur girls..🤗🤗..

    Grandy..

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    17 September 2021 in reply to Ggrand

    Hello Grandy, Hanna, Katy, Deebi, wave to everyone...

    Grandy I had a feathered visitor in my house this morning... all I could think of was please don't poop everywhere like Grandy's bird did... it was sitting on my kitchen windowsill & Woofa was bravely barking at it from my bedroom doorway... thankfully I was able to open the window & shoo it out & the only mess left was a bit of dirt from the pot plant it knocked over.

    I actually feel like I've had a very productive day today... I have a 3 door solid wood sideboard... since I had the cleanout to move here I've only been using less than half of it... it was also remodelled by Woofa when he was teething so it looks a bit naff... I bought a new flat pack small cabinet to replace it ages ago...

    Well today I emptied out the sideboard & dragged it out to the back verandah to use as my potting station... I emptied out & moved a buffet that was in front of the windows in the dining room over to where the sideboard was & then put everything back in it....

    I have been keeping the cardboard boxes the dog food is delivered in... to use to smother grass/weeds when I set up my garden beds... they got dragged outside to the shed...

    I have also started building the new cabinet... after sorting out all the different size screws!!!... why can't they just use one or two sizes... grrr

    I don't think I will finish it tonight... plus my new mattress arrived 2 weeks early & I had to drag it through the house to lean in the hall as I don't have the oomph left to swap them over...

    I could do with a bath with epsom salts... but getting out might be beyond me tonight...

    I hope this burst of motivation lasts more than just today

    Hugs to you all

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    17 September 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hi paws and everyone

    Wow Paws that's really impressive I feel tired just thinking about it all! Well done you getting all that done!

    Changing over the mattress without help is a heavy job plus making the bed up again afterwards! God idea to save that for another day.

    Well done you!

    I'm a bit bothered as there's a big dead mouse on the road in front of the house and I hope the mouse plague isn't coming this way!

    🌿🐚🐳🐥

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    I am being a big sooky la la... Woofa seems to know that I'm just being a sook & is ignoring me & completely failing to show any sympathy... which as I protected him from the scary thunder earlier & part of the reason I am being sooky is from me doing something for him... I have told him I think his attitude is very unfair.

    My wonky knees & hips haven't liked me since I moved the furniture about... they are also non to pleased with me sitting on the floor trying to screw the flat pack furniture together... my hands aren't enjoying that either... I have sliced the pad on one finger on tinfoil & like a papercut it is throbbing far in excess to its size... then to top things off... this afternoon I was filling Woofas water bowl... slopped some on the floor as I turned away from the sink... despite trying to step over it I still managed to slip... my legs went out from under me & I landed full force on my butt/back... only good thing was I didn't crack my head...

    The flat pack is still spread over the floor & I don't see it being finished anytime soon...

    I'm going to have cheese on crackers for tea... I don't trust my luck today to even attempt to cook something...

    Paws

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    20 September 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Gosh Paws are you OK after that fall? It's lucky you didn't break anything!

    Did you put the new mattress on the bed and how is it???

    I detest flat pack furniture I can never put it together. Years ago I bought a flat pack Ikea wardrobe and I had a boyfriend at the time who had actually worked at Ikea and even he gave up on trying to put it together! I ended up throwing it out!

    We'll the local Mp I wrote to has not replied in over a month and the social worker said she would phone me back last Tuesday and it's now Monday night and she still hasn't rung so I'll have to phone tomorrow.

    I do wish people would reply when they say they will!

    It turned brisk late this afternoon and snow showers are forecast for tomorrow! Sam and I love it!

    No word of any change in the lockdown here. What's happening where you are Paws?

    I hope you are not too stiff and sore after that fall.

    I have my second AZ tomorrow afternoon and I will be relieved to get it!

    Hugs 😷🐥🌷🌄💗🎶

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    20 September 2021 in reply to Hanna3

    Hello Hanna,

    No I haven't put the new mattress on the bed yet... I want to finish putting the flat pack together first...

    Like you I dislike people saying they will reply & then not doing it... it is simply unprofessional... ok they might get caught up on the day, but how hard would it be first thing the next day to just shoot off a message apologizing & advising a new timeframe.

    That should be such a relief for you getting that second jab... mine is next week. No change to lockdown here until late October at this stage... even though there is no covid near me.

    Lots of hail & sleet today... only got to 9deg & tomorrow is expected to be colder... I see the forecast has snow down low in NSW from tomorrow... I hope you don't get the hail & sleet... it really would not be nice to be out in. Just had a thought... does Sam try & catch snow flakes?

    Stay warm

    Hugs

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    21 September 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Paws

    You have such a way with with words that I can’t help but smile at your misfortune, and I honestly feel awful about that. I do sincerely hope you’re ok! You’ve been so motivated- it’s been wonderful to read that. I hope it sticks with you despite everything. Though I think some rest is well deserved.

    How are your plants going? Despite not having time to blink at mine, I managed to go buy a few more (eek!)

    Hugs, Katy

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    21 September 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hello Paws, and everyone...

    I hope your not to sore after falling down...are you okay?..

    Wow you did so much work on Saturday....well done..Those flat packs are so hard to put together...haha I can never understand the instructions or put them together properly in a sturdy way...oh and sitting on the floor doing it well done...If I sit on the floor..I can’t get up with something to help me up...even then I have a hard time...old age is catching up to me....

    I like the idea of you using your old furniture to use as a seeding station....That will make it easier for you...

    Its back to winter weather here today..it’s so cold and strong winds coming in from some spring snow not far from me....I haven’t planted my tomatoes yet..I think I should do so very soon...or I’ll not have them to snack on when I’m outside...

    We are still in lockdown here...To be honest..I am not looking forward to the lifting of lockdown....

    Take care all you beautiful people..

    My kind thoughts..

    Grandy..

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    21 September 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hey Pawsy 🐾 and other lovelies ☺

    Wow loven hearing how industrious you've been.
    Reading it amongst happy for you I was concerned about your poor bod to follow ouchems.

    I hope for you too, I often reflect on yay at least I got that done or started so easier to finish whenever.
    The rest can happen when the body/mind allows it to. I'm finding that way it doesn't stress me as much or not at all.

    When we feel ancious or stress on these things it adds to the too hard basket.
    When you're up to it hun ☺

    Yeah these flat packs I hear and have seen are hard work and high frustration.
    I guess keeping at it but only when the minds clearer and not overwhemed would be a good time to tackle them.

    It'd be good if they numbered each part in the best order to make them that's if they don't already.

    I'm impressed you even got on the floor and yes ditto Grandy love I too need something to help getting back up usually as many experience with pain.

    You poor darl you had a rough day alright crikey.
    Luck comes and goes, hoping the latter for a stretch now after that.
    I can imagine the pain esp the next day.

    Loven your wisdom not attempting cooking.
    Hoping your bodies settling more now.

    Nice having something to look forward to Pawsy. Good thinking putting the unit for the potplants.

    Love hearing about big brave woofa.
    Hey Darls he Loves his Mum unconditionally I hear esp with doggy furs.
    Mind you I'm with ya, he could have shown some sympathy ☺

    Hoping you all have some lovely sun at some stage.
    If not sometimes if I remember I picture it and how peaceful it makes everything look.
    Sometimes it gives a feeling of serenity. Gently draped over everything.

    Pawsy I'm so proud of you getting jobbies done it's so hard at times isn't it.

    Not sure how you do it with
    the mattress.
    If you can get your body behind and in the middle to stand it then let part of it flop on the bed opposed to trying to lift it.
    Should be more comfy and give you better sleeping and easier on your bod would be a bonus too.

    Hope todays a gooden lovelies

    🐾🗯🌞⚘👀🍗🤗 and love ⚘

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    Hello Hanna, Katy, Grandy, Deebi,

    Well after yesterday I spent today in bed... only crawling out to feed Woofa & let him out to puddle... I'm not too sore after my tumble but I think it might be worse in a day or two when I try doing things.

    Grandy, Deebi... you are both so right about the difficulties of getting down on the floor these days... I make sure I have a chair or something by me to assist me getting down & up... I think back to younger days when getting on the floor wasn't a major exercise requiring planning or cushions... to quote a wise man - oh dem was da days....

    Katy... touch wood all the pot plants I bought recently are still going well... but a couple of my existing ones aren't looking to good... oh well done you buying some more plants, it is such a fun thing to do... what did you get? p.s.. It's ok to chuckle at me... I must have looked very silly as I went down... especially the look of surprise as I started to slip... I shouldn't have been surprised... I've been falling over shadows since I was knee high to a grasshopper.

    Thanks for the hugs... sending them right back at you all

    Paws

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    doing yoga made me stay well and it is a major part of life now, get yourself some help 
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    Hello Everyone,

    Welcome Manpreetrockerji... always nice to see new folk about... I do have a DVD of Tai Chi for beginners.. it was recommended as being more gentle than yoga... I really need to push myself to do it though...

    Well it is 5:30am (daylight savings) & having been up all night I have just finished putting together the flat pack cupboard...finally... yayyyyy!!!! Now I'm thinking of changing the handles on it... grrr...

    Yes I'm avoiding bed (which I've been doing for some weeks now) as I've been having constant bad dreams of late... I've been waking up super anxious & feeling unsafe... no idea what has triggered it... I'm telling myself it will pass as it has before...

    My oven has stopped working... it is gas but because it is a fan force oven there is an electric component... the fuse for it has tripped & it won't reset... it is less than 5 years old... I'm really hoping it is not a sign that the mice have been eating my wiring... I will just have to do without it for a while until I feel I can cope with having an electrician here.

    I would very much like to know who is telling the local wildlife that the inside of my house is a good place to be... the latest interlopers............. snails..... the past week or so if the door is open in they come... or when I open the door to let Woofa out to puddle... there they are... on the back verandah all heading towards the door or clustering on the door sill..... not just a few... dozens plural.... of course my big brave Woofa is unable to step past even one...

    Hugs to you all

    Paws

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    3 October 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hello Dear Paws and everyone...

    Paws I can relate to you of not wanting to go to bed...I have been sleeping on my lounge again for the past few months because of avoiding my bed and bedroom....

    I have placed a pillow and blankets on my lounge and keeping the tv on all night...Eventually I do drop of to sleep...Have you tried sleeping on your lounge with the tv on?..

    I think the rain brings the snails..a few of those rocks I had to move had the bottom bit, that was on the dirt full of snails..,reminded me of the rocks at the beach with all those oyster shells stuck on them...ewe not a fan of snails, but I suppose they have been created for something..

    I tried Tia Chi when I was in hospital, an instructor came in weekly to give us lessons..I did like it and it does help our sore muscles..but I haven’t done it since being at home...I think I might try to do some....um one day..it’s hard enough to even clean my house..😂😂..

    I think the bigger the dogs are, the more gentle and sensitive they are..I think Woofa would say to you..Not scared mummy...just letting you play with them...

    I am pleased that you assembled the flat pack..hard aren’t they....Its okay about the handles at least they are fairly straight forward to replace...

    I hope your days have been good days for you lovely Paws..

    I do not like daylight savings at all...it disrupts any routine I had in place....I know the farmers like it..are they the only ones?.

    Live, care and some furry, human hugs precious Paws..

    Grandy..

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    3 October 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hi paws Grandy everyone

    I don't like daylight saving the days are too long when it's hot and my routine is all thrown out too!

    It looks like fully vaccinated people will have more freedom soon. We'll still have to be careful though.

    I am slowly decluttering the house. I try to do a little bit each day. It makes a difference!

    The friend who was abusive emailed me to give her a ring but I feel unable to trust her ever again not to become nasty again so I have told her that and said I'm not prepared to risk being upset by her again.

    She lives a very long way away now in Queensland and I feel safer keeping a distance from her.

    A lovely day today and Sam and I shared an ice-cream in the park!

    Paws you're amazing putting the furniture together I can never do that!

    Hugs from us here 🤗💖🐳🎶🏖️

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    Hi Paws

    Sorry to hear you’re having trouble sleeping, that sounds unpleasant. I wonder if lavender on your pillow or meditation/relaxation before sleep might help you relax and ward off the dreams? If you sleep during the day do the bad dreams stay away? A bonus you putting together the flat pack though? What did you decide re the handles?

    My last plant purchases were agave. They seem pretty hard to kill! Though I also just bought another indoor plant along with a nice pot with an Aboriginal design on it for my desk at prac. I’m happy to hear your new plants are surviving.

    You may remember me telling you about the gorgeous Kings Park Royale kangaroo paw I bought (that is now dead). Well, Kings Park have just created a new variety - and it’s blue!!!! Oh my gosh is it lovely! It’s meant to be quite hardy too which would be good after my last experience. It’s not available til mid next year but I’m so excited. Do google if you get a chance! :)

    And yes, snails are a problem here too - though not indoors lol. They ate my pea plants. Little rotters.

    And your stove! Oh gosh!

    well big hugs from me to you, and a kiss on the forehead for your lovely big boy x (does he like kisses?) Katy

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    4 October 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hi Paws

    I'm sorry to hear about the bad dreams. I find I get them if something is bothering me during the day. Can you play soothing music before you go to bed? I always have some playing softly at night.

    I play harp music on my little tablet and it sends Sam to sleep almost instantly!

    I must look up that kangaroo paw!

    Hugs 🤗💖🐳🦜🦄

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    5 October 2021 in reply to Hanna3

    Hello Grandy, Katy, Hanna, Deebi,

    Grandy I've often wondered why snails & slugs were created too... horrible little blighters... I guess something must eat them...

    I don't like to sleep with the the tv or other noise on as I can find it triggering... I have slept on the couch, but only during the day whilst Woofa is on his bed in the sun... as Woofa usually joins me on the couch once it gets dark... trying to sleep on it at night when he is on it I often end up resembling a pretzel...

    I watched the program on SBS tonight How to Live Younger... tonight was about how the gut biome can affect health... some of it was interesting... but some of the studies quoted used such small samples of people that the results should not have been presented as proof of the point they were trying to make... it also really bugged me whenever they said "some scientists have found blah blah", thereby highlighting some studies but completely ignoring other studies that have found otherwise... maybe I expect too much of our public broadcasters, but I do expect them to have quality science programs. ok that's my grumble for today.

    Well I won't be entering the covid lottery as much as $1million would be nice... I don't feel having to do an interview (via zoom) with the promoters & to allow the promoter to publicise my private details if I win is worth it... anyone else thinking of entering?

    Hugs to you all

    Paws

  25. Paw Prints
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    I'm struggling tonight... my elderly relative wasn't considered too old to have surgery last year because of gall stones... they have now diagnosed a tumour on one of her internal organs... forget surgery to remove it... she has just been told she is too old for them to even do a biopsy for her to know if it is malignant or benign... I honestly believe this decision has more to do with our hospitals being overwhelmed with covid patients than it has to do with her age... it is so unfair
  26. Katyonthehamsterwheel
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    8 October 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Paws

    Im so sorry to read this devastating news for you both. Is she able to seek a second opinion?

    Im sending you the biggest hug. Not fair at all. Katy

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    8 October 2021 in reply to Katyonthehamsterwheel

    Thank you Katy,

    She doesn't have private insurance so is stuck with the public system.

  28. Hanna3
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    8 October 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hi dear Paws,

    I'm so sorry to hear about your relative, that's awful news. You sound as though you care about her very much so she must be important to you.

    It's so hard to feel helpless at times like this.

    I'm not sure if they think biopsy is too dangerous or if as you say it's due to covid, I wondered that myself as I read your post.

    Does she have anyone who can talk with the treating doctors about the situation? I imagine she badly needs support and advice from other people who care about her right now.

    Are you able to talk to her by phone? Even if she is in the hospital she should have a phone. Is there other family you can talk with about what is best to do?

    I'm so sorry you're upset and worried. Big hug! Warm fluffy one from little Sam and doggie kisses!

    I'll come back tomorrow morning to see if you've posted anything else.

    Don't despair yet, I'd try to find out more if you can?

    You know we'll all support you here, you have friends here for you!

    Hug hug 💗🌹🌺💐🏵️👩‍❤️‍👩💞

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    8 October 2021 in reply to Hanna3

    Hello Hanna,

    She has her son's looking out for her.. I spoke with the son who lives with her as her carer... they have tried over the past month to get her looked at elsewhere as has her GP with no luck... she was sleeping when I rang so I wasn't able to talk with her...

  30. Hanna3
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    8 October 2021 in reply to Paw Prints

    Hi. Paws

    Can you try to speak with her and her sons tomorrow and see if you can find out a bit more?

    Get some rest tonight as there's nothing you can do now. Let us know tomorrow if you've been able to get through to them and what they say.

    Rest up for now. 🌹🥀💞

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