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Topic: Vent and then let it go...

  1. Ggrand
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    27 January 2021 in reply to Emo

    Dear beautiful people..

    Please do not hate yourself....You are a beautiful person that is having wrong done her.....Please turn that hate around and give yourself some gentleness, care, love and look after you..the best you can....

    Hugs dear Emo and everyone with my care and kind thoughts...

    In case no one has told you all today...You are beautiful..you are strong, you all matter and are very valuable people..

    A beautiful rose 🌹..and a Teddy Bear 🧸..which says you are important written on it...so you all can remember..

    Grandy..

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  2. clown of mine
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    27 January 2021
    my vent is about mosquitoes - after yesterdays outside events I have three itchy warm raised bites, the physical sensation is awful and I'm so wanting to scratch.
  3. Ggrand
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    27 January 2021 in reply to clown of mine

    Awe clown of mine...

    If you have some perfume around or after shave..put some on the itchies..it might sting for a few seconds then it helps stop the itch....

  4. Emo
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    27 January 2021 in reply to clown of mine

    Hi Clown of mine,

    I know this is just to vent but I had to share my remedy for mosquito bites as I'm allergic to them so I come up in huge welts.

    I've found the best thing to apply to bites is Vicks Vapour Rub. There is also a plain brand version of Vicks Vapour Rub available at the supermarket which is much cheaper if you don't have the brand name already.

    Please feel free to share this information as I hate to see anyone in pain. You will find it takes the sting out and makes the swelling go down.

    Its best to put on straight after you get a bite as it is most effective being applied as soon as possible.

    All the best and I hope the pain goes.

    Regards,

    Emo.

  5. clown of mine
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    27 January 2021

    remedies appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    On with the Vent : I do not like to have another's demands placed upon me sometimes people miss all the social cues and keep attention seeking at first it's fool hardly but it soon gets annoying and a bit creepy.

  6. Missing user
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    27 January 2021 in reply to clown of mine
    Sorry to hear that clown of mine, I'm confused on what all of that means. We're here for you.
  7. clown of mine
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    29 January 2021
    partner who bottles up their stress until they become negative and aggressive to be around Then partner uses me as a scape goat to project their Stress onto. I detest this treatment. All because partner bottles up stupid stress, when partner is welcome to talk and share but partner seems to dysfunctional to stop the cycle. GGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
  8. monkey_magic
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    29 January 2021 in reply to clown of mine
    My mum gives me the shits. She takes a plate for example that I haven't yet taken to the kitchen and has a stress attack over it. She stresses over the small things.

    Is the queen coming over? Or anyone for that matter?

    She stews on things and then stresses at me. I don't like the way she speaks to me. It's as though I am under her.

    It also shits me that she does housework when it doesn't need to be done and quietly expects me to follow suit.

    It just creates tension. I'm not up to her standard and I don't give a shit.
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  9. Missing user
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    29 January 2021 in reply to monkey_magic

    Hey MM, I'm sorry that your Mum is like that, it's unfortunate. I'm thinking of you.

    I know you do your best, and you're a good person inside and out. It's not your fault that she's the way she is. I'm sorry I can't offer more support there but I'm here for you.

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  10. monkey_magic
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    30 January 2021 in reply to Missing user
    Thanks mb20lover. I appreciate that.

    So I bought a 4wd a couple months ago that the seller said has no issues. Well, I haven't stopped spending money on all the issues it has.
    It's been raining and water gets in. Under the electrical box!!! I'm so frustrated because I have no idea how I'm supposed to stop water getting in.
    The seals r good. Looks like it could be getting in through gap in door....???

    No wonder it's been sold. And I'm the sucker.
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  11. Missing user
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    30 January 2021 in reply to monkey_magic
    That sucks, I'm sorry MM. They should've told you the problems so that's on them also, not you
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  12. Shelll
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    30 January 2021

    He just keeps ignoring me. I want to think the best, that is perhaps I speak too quietly. But I don't think that is it.

    Whatever the reason is, it makes me feel so unimportant, a person not worth listening to. A nobody. Why does he keep doing this?

  13. Shelll
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    30 January 2021
    I know I am bitter towards him. I can sense it in me. It is so challenging. If he treats me a certain way, there is something not right in him. It does not mean I am not valuable, it does not mean I am a nothing, a nobody. I do not need him to make me feel loved, cared about, precious, or worth noticing.
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  14. clown of mine
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    30 January 2021 in reply to Shelll
    everyone has something to ask of me and it's in my nature to keep giving when I'm low on personal time I'm gonna have to take a breather................................
  15. Shelll
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    30 January 2021

    Sadness seems to be consuming me. I can sense grief mixed up in there as well. As well as aloneness.

    I am unable to connect with the one person on this earth I desire most to connect with. No connectness in any way. It breaks my heart.

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  16. Matchy69
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    30 January 2021
    I just hate my life and how no body likes me or appreciates me.
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  17. Missing user
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    30 January 2021 in reply to Matchy69
    I like and appreciate you Mark
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    30 January 2021 in reply to Missing user
    Thanks Tayla your friendship means a lot to me.I wish other Pepe thought that.I am just going through a depression episode I guess
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  19. clown of mine
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    30 January 2021 in reply to Matchy69
    venting about rude people and those who can't follow simple instructions
  20. Missing user
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    30 January 2021 in reply to Matchy69

    Aw thanks Mark, your friendship means a lot to me too. I wish we could be friends in person too.

    Yeah I understand, I'm feeling the same myself.

    My vent: sometimes I feel like I bother certain people here for no reason.

  21. Matchy69
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    30 January 2021 in reply to Missing user
    Hi Tayla you never annoy me.I think your a car caring person on here.I look at my phone but their is no one to msg I have no friends so I come on here.It cost me a fortune in internet credit but I have no where else to go.
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  22. Missing user
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    30 January 2021 in reply to Matchy69

    Thanks Mark, I appreciate that.

    Yeah same with me, I have no friends and family either so I come here. Sorry it costs you a fortune

  23. Shelll
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    30 January 2021
    Chose to let all the bitterness go
  24. clown of mine
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    31 January 2021 in reply to Shelll
    got some new undies they are right size yet the cut is uncomfortably brief, if dirt falls down my back today ,as it often does during the reno, then the my undies will catch it. waste of money and more rags for the reno,
  25. Shelll
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    31 January 2021

    Sitting in the car in the undercover car park. Trying to deal with these emotions. Why do I get emotionally hurt by this person.

  26. clown of mine
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    31 January 2021
    my partner gets jealous over the small things I'm sick of feeling guilty when I am not
  27. Ggrand
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    31 January 2021 in reply to clown of mine

    Hello beautiful people posting or reading...

    Just popping in to give everyone a beautiful 🌹 rose and a warm caring hug....🤗

    Grandy..

  28. Missing user
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    31 January 2021
    I hope no one judges me here, as I often feel like some people don't like me for no reason.
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  29. Ggrand
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    31 January 2021 in reply to Missing user

    Hello Dear Tayla...

    I do try so much not to reply here as the introduction posts requests...but I need to tell you I like you...and I care about you...I’m ver certain that many other people on these forum do as well..

    Hugs Dear Tayla...and I want to give you a beautiful rose 🌹for a beautiful person.

    Grandy..

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  30. Shelll
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    31 January 2021

    Hey Tayla, I don't really know you. But I certainly care about you and you seem kinda sweet.

    And Grandy please don't stress or get worried if you post encouraging and caring posts in here to everyone. It's all cool. Thankyou

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