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Forums / Supporting family and friends with a mental health condition (carers) / Seperation and divorce after cheating 3 times

Topic: Seperation and divorce after cheating 3 times

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  1. AvaM33
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    10 May 2019
    My husband cheated on me 3 times. We lived for 10 years. I forgived him every time but I donot know why. He always beated me and made bruises. Divorce was always hard for me. I am in seperation process. Please help me not to come back to him. I am an immigrant and living alone.
  2. IsaJett
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    10 May 2019 in reply to AvaM33

    Hi ava

    there are definitely people you can speak to that can help you . Know that you are not alone in this . You can call 1800 015 188 to speak to someone ...its a womens helpline .it is 24/7.

    They will be able to help you or even the beyond blue helpline that can guide you on who to call

    Stay safe but give them a call when you can

  3. Birdy77
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    10 May 2019 in reply to AvaM33
    Dear Ava,

    You have made such a brave and important step by leaving your husband.

    I know it is incredibly hard, but just by starting the separation process, you are doing well.

    You said you live alone, but do you have anyone to support you through this time?

    IsaJett has given you a helpline number, please use that if you feel you need immediate support.

    I am glad you've come to the forums here as well. We will cheer you on as you go through this difficult period towards a better life.

    I know there will be times when you are tempted to go back to him. But you know in your heart that you need to be away from him and that you deserve a better life than what you had with him.

    Nobody deserves the cruelty you were receiving at his hands.

    It will be hard, but the longer you stay away from him, the easier it will start to feel. You need to break that connection with him, and every time you go back or have contact, it enables him to reconnect that toxic energy between you.

    You can do this Ava!

    There is a happy, safe and bright future ahead, just waiting for you.

    I believe in you.

    Stay strong and come here to talk any time.


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