This sounds incredibly difficult, and it sounds like you're doing your best to understand and support your daughter. We understand how difficult it can be watching your loved ones struggle, especially when you have seen a professional and are still not seeing much change. We hope you find something in the advice from Dr Kim. Hopefully there'll be some comfort, understanding and advice from other forum users, many of whom have shared similar experiences.
It must be really hard feeling like communication is not good between the two of you. Is there anyone in her life that you think could try talking to her? We'd encourage you and her to reach out to the Beyond Blue Support Service. We are available 24/7 by phone on 1300 22 4636, or you can use our webchat or email. One of our friendly counsellors will be able to talk through these feelings with you and can offer support, advice and referrals.
Alternatively, you could get in touch with Kids Helpline. They are a confidential and anonymous, telephone and online counselling service specifically for young people aged 25 and under. You can also contact Lifeline (13 11 14) or the Suicide Call Back Service (1300 659 467) for tips and strategies.
Just a note on the location of this post – this thread is a few years old, and Dr Kim is no longer likely to reply as she's left the community. We have it pinned as the advice is really constructive, but if you don't see many responses from other users, do feel free to start your own thread on this topic.
We're really glad you've had the strength and courage to come this community for support. You are not alone and we are here to assist you. Please keep coming back to the forum and touch base with us, whenever you feel comfortable to do so.