Ironically, in one of his "moments" he claimed he didn't feel loved by us, when all we have done, is support him. I know the past year and a bit has been A LOT for everyone and as such, has caused personal "shift" in each and every one of us. EVERYONE has been affected by Covid alone even without other things that happen. The fact he doesn't even realise how much it has all affected US TOO, as individuals, is heartbreaking.
Our daughters feel completely and utterly abandoned and betrayed by him. We have always been "ride or die" together as a family for 20 years and then one day, he just bolts and leaves the 3 of us dazed and confused.
Also yes, have sought assistance from MHP's and it's circular and it's actually like, they don't have anything but "post it" assumptions to make as to just HOW I am feeling. I came HERE to interact with people who have actually walked a mile in the same shoes, rather than just pigeonholed people into an alphabetical box, based purely on their theoretical or even "hypothetical" understanding OF such issues.