Hi, thanks for the join.
Hope I can get some help as so confused.
husband of 26 years has suffered depression for a few years. Since he set up his own business this year and me being overseas for 4 months, he has hit rock bottom.
he moved out October to stay with friend as he said me and adult son and the house made him feel trapped. We have not trapped him at all.
Christmas week we found out he had fell out with friend and was sleeping in car. He came back home. He said he’d not been in contact with me, his sons or our new granddaughter as he’d contemplated suicide and didn’t want to get close to us.
he stayed here for a week and went for a drink with friend on Thursday and said he was staying over. I texted and rang him as was worried as how he is, couldn’t imagine him conversation with anybody or drink. He was really off on the phone so an hour later I texted r u seeing someone. No answer but following afternoon he texted yes I am sorry.
I’ve met with him and he said he’s known her a few months but only seeing her 2 weeks. He’s moved in with her.sleep in same bed but done nothing as he can’t perform and hasn’t been able for a few years.
he said she has had mental health in the past and he can talk to her.
she knows he’s married.
should I be angry or worried about him. He’s chosen a woman he can’t perform with over his family.had us all worried about ending his life.
so sorry for the long post x