clever username, i like it.
it is very good that you have your own opinion on the subjects. Mine differ vastly from others, but i try to see both sides, or from another perspective, as we too can become just as narrow minded.
what your describing sounds like the conversations i have with my mum. A very conservative, religious person. Kind of anti-gay too. But i love my mum dearly.
im not saying at all to leave your church. For me, I still identify as xxxxxx just not actively practicing. I still teach my kids about good and bad, morality...i just figured a long time ago that church (the physical place and the narrow minded comments) were not for me. The teachings for the most part are how to be a good person, have morals, kindness, respect, and the like.
Be strong. Be well.