I am so, so sorry for your loss. I know there are no words to consol your hurting soul and heart at the moment, however, maybe knowing that people who read your post, genuinely feel for your loss, maybe this is going to give you a thread to hold on to...
Sophie and Smallwolf have given you some beautiful words of support. I would also like to commend you for booking a visit with a counsellor.
Be kind to yourself. Be understanding towards yourself. Be patient with yourself and allow time to do or not do whatever things. Take one step at the time, or no steps at all.
Also, if possible, try to involve your daughter in as many things as you decide possible, so she feels your trust, love and willingness to go through this together. Invite her to do the same towards you so you both learn how to rely on each other even more than thus far.
Thank you so much for trusting us here on this forum with your experience. We are here for you, whenever you need us.