Last year my eldest son and his wife presented me with a beautiful Grandson. They unfortunately live in London.
Early this year my daughter in law returned very distressed to Australia, to stay with her Mum.
My son had had an affair. I feel such shame and disbelief that a son of mine could do such a thing. It is very out of character, or so I thought.
He has come out here to talk with his wife and see his son, but has returned to London. He feels ashamed.
Recently on my Grandson's first birthday, I had a long and difficult conversation with my daughter in law. What she has revealed has opened so many ?????
The woman he had the affair with has been very obviously chasing my son for two years. My daughter in law has even has words with her saying keep your hands off my husband. This woman works with my son in a ver stressful job.
i also was inform ed that my son was anxious about their marriage, move to London, purchase of their London home and birth of their son. My daughter in law said she was tired of helping him with their anxieties, especially since he is a very poor communicator related to personal matters. My son is a brilliant finical lawyer, who was head hunted for his job. I am told that his job is his security now, he is anxious about leaving it to follow his family to Australia.
But his anxiety at times is such that he will ring is wife here, at all hours.
She has organised a therapist for him to see weekly and friends to drop in and check on him.
i suffer from major depression, general anxiety and I am finding this whole situation over whelming
if anyone has any advice, words of ..... Help