We had everything going for us, beautiful family, financially set up and lived in an amazing house near the beach then...........
My wife said to me after going away for a girls weekend, that she has been unhappy for 6 years. I suspected she had met someone as she seemed to switch off. She moved away quickly with the kids and told everyone untruths about me as a husband. I wasnt perfect, but not who she made me out to be.
Well 7 months later, the truth is out, she did meet someone on the girls weekend and have been in contact ever since. She made him known to my kids a few weeks after meeting him and they recieved christmas presents from him. They were with her when she slept together for the first time on a weekend away, some 2 months after they met.
I found out they got engaged 2.5 months after they met and planned a life together. All this time she maintained the unthruths about me and kept the engagement hidden from her family and most of her firends. We even had marriage counselling but she never dislosed anything to the counsellor.
They broke up recently and he made contact with me and revealed the whole truth about the situation and provided evidence to support his claims.
All through this my kids watched thier mum lie to people and helped her cover up her situation. She tells them lies about me which has distanced them from me. I find that unfair.
All the way through this, many people suspected what was going on, but now we know the truth and I feel better, but does not change the facts and I miss my kids dearly.
More has come out about her kissing other guys and I feel horrible that she has done this to me.
I never cheated on her or physically abused her or the kids.
I think she is seeing a counsellor and have heard they said she has major issues to deal with.
The other day she said that she realises she has hurt me and the kids. I feel sorry for her but hate whats she has done.
I want to move on cause I deserve better, but find it hard to....