I know people will think im being very selfish but i believe modern gadgets are not helping
We are on our 2nd marriage and we have had 10 glorious years of love and happiness, I am 61 and my wife is 57, we share the same interests and always holding hands in public or kissing in public.
She had a hysterectomy a few years ago but still our sex drive between us was fantastic.
My wife does suffer depression and has been on medication for many years
For the last 6 months or so our sex life has stopped to the fact where we have sex maybe once a month and then its the same spoon position and no kissing. I've tried so hard to do other things to no avail.
She has a iphone and ipad and when she gets home from work the ipad comes out and that gets her attention weather it be fb or google etc
We then have dinner and its back to the ipad, we then go to bed and its the ipad and then she closes it off and goodnight...
I lay there watching tv, i always hold her leg and always caressing her leg but nothing happens.
We have spoken about it and she told me i dont know why i dont fancy it and im sorry
Ive asked her about worries, stresses, and things like that...
I cant help it if i love to make love to my wife and if love to kiss her but its all stopped and im getting so worked up by it i dont know what to do.
I asked if she still found me attractive and she says yes, she tells me she loves me every day but as of late im not saying it back, i dont know why but all i can think of is that im angry with her.
Even if we go out in the car for a ride or on holiday she sits there next to me on her phone or ipad
She was a addict with online scrabble but after a sarcastic comment she went and deleted it.
We used to even lay there in bed holding hands and then her iwatch thing would buzz and she would dismiss me and go to notification etc.. or say someone is calling and everything stops
Im trying my best not to be selfish on this but im really at the end of my tether...
Thanks for reading