Hi Tess,
yes agree , but his mum lives 2 doors down from him so I'd have to pop into his place, possibly with sis there. Sis says she misses me too but the thought of her being there gives me anxiety. His mum knows how thoughtful & caring I am so she knows something not right.
He just won't face the reason why I don't go there. The elephant in the room. Lockdown has been a total of less than 3 weeks in the 2 months I haven't been there. I reckon I could be honest with his mum. I reckon she'd understand.
On another note, she hasn't been the gym to exercise cos of lockdown and too scared to walk in case she falls. M was lovely enough to take her out for a walk today. I wonder what they chatted about. Sis is on gentle exercise since her op, don't know why she hasn't been walking with her mum. I guess she prefers the spin bike and putting it on social media so everyone knows about the surgery.
They are so different. Wouldn't it be funny if his mum asked me and I just told her the truth lol. I should ask M why he didn't. I reckon she'd understand.
Few years ago, after their dad passed we went to the cemetery all together. We were going to all go for lunch but his mum said no. She said she wanted to go home cos Sunday was the only day M & I had together. His sis said she didn't care, she was coming to lunch with us.
That says it all. Just can't tolerate her.