I thought I had my health anxiety under control, but over the past month I've gone into the doctors maybe 10 or so times for various reasons, and honestly, if I could go in everyday, I would. It all started up again around a month ago when I felt a small bump on the inside of my mouth, since then I've been to 3 different doctors to get it checked and all 3 of them said it was nothing to be concerned about, but I kept saying to myself "They didn't have a proper look at it. They aren't taking me seriously because they see my medical record and see that I came into the doctors a lot before for no good reason. They just think I'm imagining it again".

On one hand I don't want to waste the time of these doctors if it is just my health anxiety acting up again and I'm just blowing it way out of proportion, but on the other hand I don't want to risk it if it is something serious and it goes undiagnosed.

I just feel like I'm being a burden to them. I feel like every time they see me book an appointment they think "Oh boy, it's this guy again, what bs has he got for me this time?". I obviously need to see a mental health professional, but right now due to Covid (and even before Covid) every single psychiatrist/psychologist I tried to book with was booked out. It feels like a one step forward, two steps back type of thing. I finally get the motivation to better myself and work on my mental health issues, find a psychiatrist/psychologist, call them up, and get the same 'Sorry, we're at capacity' response and it throws me right back to where I started and I lose all motivation again.

I don't know what to do at this point. I don't want to keep going to see the doctors if it's unnecessary to do so, but I also don't want to just go 'you're just imagining it, don't worry' and then possibly have something go undiagnosed because of it.

How can I see a psychologist or psychiatrist (psychologist to deal with my health anxiety, psychiatrist to get what I suspect to be ADHD diagnosed) if they're always fully booked? I feel like at this rate I'll never get to see one.

Thanks if you've read this far. I appreciate you.

Hi Max

You sound so incredibly well tuned into your body. Not a lot of people possess the ability to sense or recognise the slightest of changes to their physical form.

May sound a bit strange, putting it this way, but I think some GPs don't fully realise how seriously wonderful some patients are. It's like you can have some patients who basically wonder about changes and some patients who seriously wonder about changes they feel or discover. As you'd know, it does get serious when the kind of wondering you're stuck in leads you to incredible levels of stress. I think some doctors should have a better education when it comes to helping a patient manage this level of wonder and concern.

Any doctor who writes a patient off with thoughts of 'Oh here he/she comes again! What's wrong this time?' should be questioned. When your newly discovered change leads you to focus on it and nothing else, it's mentally challenging to live through this degree of distraction in life. When the thoughts and stress are impacting your chemistry and nervous system in such an ongoing way, it becomes serious. While some doctors see themself as a practitioner of treating disease, they may be forgetting about their role in treating serious dis-ease (a serious lack of ease). So, it's like you can be going to see your GP for years with serious concerns about everything, which can in turn have such high levels of stress continuously fatiguing different systems in your body (including your sympathetic nervous system). Then at some point you go and say to your doctor 'I don't know what's wrong with me, I'm just chronically fatigued all the time'. They may say, after observing your symptoms of fatigue for 6 months or so, 'I've reached the conclusion you're suffering from chronic fatigue syndrome. Unfortunately, there's no known cause for it'. Crazy when you think about it. Chronic dis-ease can lead to chronic disease in some cases, recognised by a GP who holds a more holistic view, one who tends to look at the overall picture (how the mind and body interact).

The question should be, for any doctor, 'How do we help a patient who is seriously wonderful (full of a serious amount of wonder), who has the ability to recognise even the smallest of changes?'. Perhaps, finding a practitioner who has the ability to help manage each consultation constructively is the way to go. One who holds qualities of a good investigator and teacher, teaching you how to manage, could help make a difference.

:)

Hi 44Max44,

I appreciate you sharing what's going on for you with us; health anxiety is so hard and I can completely relate to the push pull and constantly wanting the reassurance that things are ok. It sounds like you're pretty familiar with your health anxiety so I take it that you've had lots of symptoms in the past that have gone away in time? How did you know that you have health anxiety?

It's really tricky with the GP's, because they have to balance out what's going to be helpful and what's not- and it is important that they do validate and look into your experiences. Have you ever shared how you feel with your GP? I wonder if that might be helpful, so then they can reassure you with what they actually think instead of what you think they think.

With the psychiatrist/psychologist, one thing that I did was bulk email a heap of people- so copy/paste and ask about their availability. It took a lot less energy than trying to call each one so maybe that could be an idea next time. Maybe your GP can also recommend someone who can at least put you on their waitlist.

Here's a really good resource in the meantime; (all free) it's all developed by psychologists as well -

https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself/Health-Anxiety

https://www.headtohealth.gov.au/mental-health-difficulties/mental-health-conditions/anxiety-disorders

Hope this helps

rt

Hi 44Max44,

Im sorry you are feeling this way I understand health anxiety can be difficult to deal with.

I suffered with this also I was for ever finding things on my body that I’d worry about and then go to the doctor and have it checked I’d be told it was fine but I’d still keep obssessing over it my anxiety was also high due to all of the worrying.

My gp was always very caring and supportive of me when ever I would go in with something. I don’t think gp s would think negatively about a patient I think they would understand that our worries are valid and want to help us in any way they can.

It came to a point in my life that my worrying and obsessing began to get out of control my anxiety was severe……. I was later diagnosed with OCD… obsessive compulsive disorder… I have now recovered from this condition and I now no longer worry and obsess over things.

Im here if you have any questions