dear BGC, thanks for being able to consider talking to us.
I can see a couple of issues here, and excuse me if I say something that might upset you, I certainly don't want to to be the case.
You love your wife, but I wonder whether it was mutual, and I only ask this because she has taken a job overseas and has been away for about 4 months, as there is skype which can be used to talk to someone overseas, or perhaps a continual use of facebook.
I'm just wondering what communication has been used over the past 4 months.
The other issue is did you realise that your sexuality may have changed, and even so it doesn't stop you from loving your wife, but maybe she had noticed this and the reason why she went overseas, sorry.
There are a few more issues associated with all of this, but I will wait until you reply back to us, and I hope that I haven't upset you. Geoff.