I remember you 😊
This might not be much help, but my first reaction is : try to relax.
I know March feels like a long way off, but seriously, it will fly by.
There's the Christmas/end of year fiasco (as I "lovingly" call it) ... then there's orientation-week at uni, and getting all your subjects and your books sorted ... it would be good to fit some down time in there somewhere.
I understand where you're at, I've been there too ... you just want some people around you who "get it".
What if you give the backstage thing a try? It might not be your thing, but you also might meet some nice people.
Also, people there might be able to point you in a better direction, group-wise.
I've forgotten if you're in a metro area, and I haven't checked back on your other thread, but for instance if you're in Sydney, there's LOTL (Lesbians On The Loose) free magazine (also online I think) that has lots of events and activity groups advertised (just an example).
My feeling is to try to relax, but I know that can be hard when you want to get out there.
I'm always happy to talk more with you HappyGirlTea.
Take care of you.