Hi Farmer and everyone ☺
That's really good to hear. Good on you!
Thanks to BB providing such an incredibly safe non judgemental place makes it possible for so many people doing the super hard yards to find support and advice from people that understand pain & some have been through similar
I too have so much gratitude to bb as I know many do. You know it's most often horrid people causing pain to others like in your situation and here's the other side, the good people helping eachother.
Don't know if you're aware with your situation and how you're coping and holding so incredibly strong would be an inspiration to so many people.
Seeing someone go right down but not making the wrong choice and holding up shows we do have what we need although buried we can dig the strength up. I'm proud if you Farmer 👍gives people hope.
Thanks will be good to know how it goes tomoz. Fingers crossed 🤞
I hear what you're saying about her being smug and laughing. People like that trip and fall eventually usually. She's been getting cocky, they always end up falling. She'd be missing her sister. The life she's living will sometime turn against her. I hope but also think that.
I'm only saying this to try and make your burden lighter dear man and I do it myself all the time. It does your head in.
Try friend to not think too often on how she's laughing etc and taunting youse it'd send me right off. What happens is your pain anger frustration builds and strengthens and stews as you'd know.
If you can see any positives in the situation like it's bought your family closer. There were good times, deep down I suspect she'd be missing the quality youse gave her.
That gives your mind more to focus on in a lighter mode of thought as opposed to churning on the down thoughts that are totally understandable.
Also by redirecting your thinking to what can be done to change the situation which it sounds like from the lawyer there's a lot.
Remember good man keep breathing deeply and feel your muscles physically relax around your shoulders it can help ease the tension.
Thoughts and care to you all 🍃