Dear Flower Earth Angel~
It's nice to hear from you again, and that you want to find someone, at least for a date.
I've faced similar problems, though it was a fair while ago now and found that if one's disabilities, both mental and physical, are not that obvious then why put it out front? I made a passing reference to past stress issues and left it at that. It was only after the person got to know me and was interested in me did I open up a little more, starting with the physical hassles.
Now I'm completely frank and was before we permanently hitched.
I don't think that was unfair or dishonest, you simply open up more as you get closer. Also if nothing much is mentioned at the start there can be no false feelings of pity to cloud the issue. I would suggest you opt for a quiet place to meet as - if I remember correctly - you have a hearing injury.
I don't think anybody is perfect and people look past injuries and see the real you if the have affection for you.