Hi guest, please forgive me if it sounds harsh, I just so relate to your wife as I've had attempts, that I have strong feelings reading Ur words
Transitioning out of hopsifal is really hard, I always get so low and sometimes even seriously low when I come home.
You speak of her quite harshly, like she's playing Games, yet it sounds like she's in deep pain,
Perhaps you can get help from others who are carers, or a therapist for ourselves.
We can't really fix anyone or take away their pain, we may need to work on ourselves, to become the best we can be..
Just the way u write sounds like u succeeded in fixing her, as if she is broken. Depression isn't her fault and feeling as she does is not a choice she makes.
She doesn't want to get help....can u leas the way by getting therapy for urself?
I'm always wary of ppl telling others to go to a therapist
The change has to come from within the person.