dear Deek, my first immediate comment is that if you have sex every
Saturday, religiously on that day, then it's only pleasing your and his
joy of natural relief in having sex, it's not what a loving couple does,
because it's done spontaneously when two people love each other, from
what they have done by way of enjoyment, excitement, the thrill of
something positive happening or just an intimiate time together, doing
it everytime on the same day is mundane, no love involved, personally I
would find it boring, it's just like cleaning the shower every week.
If he is in denial, maybe or maybe not, or not a bit interested in seeking
help to try and overcome his depression, then this life-style will only
drag on, achieving nothing.
You want him to love you and enjoy as
well as love your baby, have fun together, play games that involves the
three of you, but he is pushing all of this away, denying you
When people are deressed they don't initiate something
that may give the both of you happiness for fear of failure or
rejection, however this dosen't mean that when you are intimate joy can
not be shown.
Unless your husband wants to start getting professional
help then this relationship will only stay the same, so have a think
about the options available, so please get back to us. Geoff. x