dear Pixie, it's great that you have posted, this site is just another avenue for you to get help from all of these wonderful people who are still going through different types of depression, but have and will reply back to other people and in this case it's you and your wife.
Even though they haven't conquered this nasty illness their aim is to help as many people as possible with their own experiences, while there are some of us who have been through hell and back but have now overcome this disease, and our aim is no different than those other people still having troubles.
So basically it's a site to talk about what your concerns are, and there is never any criticism, because BB would never allow this to happen.
If and when you would like to make contact with us and talk about what has happened then please do so, because you will have many people jump on board to offer support, help or even suggestions.
It's lovely to hear from you, and we know that the BB team would go over board to help you. L Geoff. x