I’ve just got a past life and a current life and it’s all pretty different then to now.
I identify just as Sim because attaching words to things, gendered words I personally didn’t find it very helpful after a while.
I can’t say that I’m not affected by a lot of things around me but I’ve done a lot of questioning into who I want to be, and transitioning at an age where I was officially becoming an adult you ask a lot of questions at that life stage.
Finding realistic information relied on talking to people from all different backgrounds, having real conversations with people, real stories, looking at research.
I have a lot more resilience now that I understand my own self-worth, despite living in a culture that often gives us the opposite messages. The advice I can give is to commit to learning and understanding gender, understand history, understand religion, understand how everything intertwines because it will really help you understand a lot of things you may come across as a trans person, and even help you understand how to bring about positive change.