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Forums / Grief and loss / Felling loner and sad 😢all the time

Topic: Felling loner and sad 😢all the time

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  1. Jasmine R
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    21 posts
    4 May 2020
    I lost my only pet the day after his 1 birthday he would of been 5 years this April that’s just passed I fell so lonely and sad ever single day i made a memory wall of him up but looking at it makes me cry 😢 I hate living without him kills me inside Felling upset ever day felling like I never want get up anymore
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  2. Ggrand
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    4 May 2020 in reply to Jasmine R

    Hello Jasmine...

    Im deeply sorry your missing you pet....I know how they become so much part of the family...

    Sweetheart your still grieving your loss..Theirs no time limit to grief....

    Do you mind me asking what type of pet it was?’s okay if you don’t feel up to sharing here....

    It beautiful that you have made a memory you have pictures on the wall of the good times you shared..I’m sure your pet wouldn’t want you to be so sad, but I do I lost my pet Belgium Shepherd many years ago to a stroke..he was 9 years old....

    I went a long time before I could accept another dog..I ended up getting one from my son..then she had puppies and I kept one...I have two fur daughters now...and so much love to give them...I’m wondering if you have ever thought about getting another pet...Not to replace the one you lost...One that you could give your love to and who will also love you back unconditionally...Just my thoughts sweety...

    I will never ever forget “Boofy”...I loved him dearly, and still do....I remember the good times we had together. and know I gave him the best life I could....Like you would have given your pet the best life you could for him/her...

    Sending you my care, love and some warm hugs..🦋🤗💜.


  3. Jasmine R
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    5 May 2020 in reply to Ggrand
    Hi he was a sleepy lizard 🦎 he was born very small
  4. Ggrand
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    5 May 2020 in reply to Jasmine R

    Hello Jasmine....🤗..

    Awe..They are Beautiful pets..My two brothers used to have blue tongue lizards and bearded dragons as pets..and had them many years...It started as 1 but they went bush walking to find them and bring them home as pets....They used to sit on their shirts when they were watching tv....

    Would you ever consider getting another one, when your feeling better?

    Sending my care, love and hugs...🦋💜🤗..


  5. Jasmine R
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    6 May 2020 in reply to Ggrand
    Hi the unit I live in now cos iv moved house a few times is a rental unit and it’s a pet free one I don’t think I’m aloud to have pets in this one witch sucks I love the area I live in now cos I now live in a area me and him you,s to go all the time so being in this place dose make me fell some close to his spirt but me and him was very much a like and I fell like if I got another animal that would be like replace him and I fell as if he was looking over me he would hate me for that if that makes any sense ever year now cos he passed the day after his birthday so every year now I find my self for those two day I like to eat his fav foods and he loved the colour purple so for those two days I dress head toe toe in purple just so I can keep his memory alive some hall I fell like I should do that for him since I could keep him alive I fell like it’s my duty to do so but I fell so empty with out him he with me I fell cheated that I only got my pet for a year while of people get to have the pets for a long time I fell angry at my self for not being able to save him and it kills me inside I fell so bad that he had so much more to life to give and he never had a fight chance I look at the pic we took together and the smile on his face and I think to my self why did he have to die at such a young age he was the only thing in my life that made me happy and now I’m just lost with out him I still remember the day I lost it was a beautiful sunny day after a week of pour rain I still remember the time 12:30 in the afternoon he passed away in my arms I have a photographic memory witch all so make it hard to get over the loss when my memory is clear as day I don’t think I ever get over the lost of him the pain will never end i just miss him so much he was one of kind we use to love watch movies together love going for long walk and lots more do that stuff now with out him just makes me fell so lost
  6. meggymoo555
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    1 posts
    14 July 2020
    im always sad i dont know how to be happy anymore
  7. Sophie_M
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    14 July 2020 in reply to meggymoo555
    Hi meggymoo555,

    Welcome to our friendly online community, we are so glad you decided to join us here. We know it can be hard to write the first post, so thank you for having the courage. We're sorry to hear that you're always feeling sad. Please know that there is always hope - things can always improve with the right treatment and support. We're sure that a lot of our community members will relate to these feelings and hopefully some of them will be able to offer you words of advice.

    If you are interested, we would also recommend getting in touch with an organisation called Headspace. Headspace is an organisation specifically for young people aged 12-25 and they offer a wide range of services including group programs. They also have a group chat on their webpage.

    If you feel it may be helpful, you are always welcome to get in touch with Kids Help Line. They are a confidential and anonymous, telephone and online counselling service specifically for young people aged 25 and under.
    Please feel free to start a thread of your own to tell your story and receive support from the community.

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