Looking out for yourself

Looking out for yourself is a bit like looking after the car. You know that a regular maintenance keeps the family wagon running well, even if it seems to generally be driving OK. And if things aren’t running smoothly, it’s time to book in a service.

However, though we’re pretty good at keeping the family wagon running, many of us aren’t as great at looking out for ourselves. In order for us to get the best out of our minds and stay healthy, we need to pay attention to doing regular activities that help us stay healthy and connected with the people around us. 

Staying healthy

There are many things you can do to help yourself stay well. A great starting point is to look after your body by staying physically active, eating healthily and getting plenty of sleep.

Other small things like going for a run, talking to a mate or a family member, getting out into the garden, or even just going for a walk outside can all be really helpful, too.

Even if you’re not feeling great, it’s important to try to keep doing the things that you usually enjoy, though you might not be enjoying them as much as usual. If you keep active and persist with them, you should eventually start to enjoy them a bit more and start to feel better.

Find out more about staying well 

Staying connected

Loneliness is a big one for many men. Men experience loneliness more than women, and it’s not just blokes living alone who get lonely. 

Many men feel the pressure to work hard to provide for their family, and don’t get as much time to catch up with their mates as they used to. 

However, having time with our mates is critical to our wellbeing. Spending time talking with your mates in person is best, even if it’s just a quick check-in, a coffee, or a quiet beer. If it’s hard to meet up with your mates, even texting a mate to say g’day can help make you, and them, feel more connected.

One way to stay in touch is to join a local group – whether it’s a footy team, a community group, or a weekly run or swim club, you’ll find meeting new people and having a yarn will help you feel more connected to the community around you. 

Another way you can feel more connected is by checking in with your mates or by offering to support a mate who’s going through a rough patch. 

Read our top tips on how you can be there for your mates when they need a hand

Having the conversation

If you're going through a tough time and have depression, anxiety or suicidal thoughts, talking about how you’re feeling can be hard. But keeping silent could make it seem even worse. You don't have to go through this alone. Support from friends, family or a health professional can help with your recovery.

If you're worried about someone and avoiding starting a conversation with them about your concerns, simply letting them know you care can make a big difference.  

With the advice of people who are familiar with depression and anxiety beyondblue has developed information that can help people have a conversation that might be difficult.

Read our advice on having the conversation


Giving back

It can feel great to help out others. Giving back to the community, through volunteering for example, is a great way to meet new people and to start new friendships. 

Take a look at some of our fundraising legends helping to raise money for beyondblue


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If you’re looking for a way to show your support for beyondblue to make a real difference to the lives of individuals, families and communities affected by depression, anxiety and suicide, you can get involved by raising funds with a beyondblue Bash.

There are stacks of ways to get involved, and your support will help us meet the ever-increasing demand for our services and resources. 

Find out about fundraising via a beyondblue Bash event