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Christmas burnout is common – here are a few ways to feel better

If Xmas leaves you feeling overwhelmed, consider chatting with a family member or friend. We’re also here 24/7 if you’d like to talk to a counsellor.

What contributes to Christmas burnout?

Every year Christmas rolls around, and for many so does the stress and exhaustion that comes with it. 

 Here’s how burnout can show up:

  • Overcommitment: too many events, too little time
  • Family tension: complicated relationships or expectations
  • Financial strain: gifts, travel, meals, hosting costs
  • Social comparison: chasing Instagram-perfect moments
  • End-of-year deadlines: work projects/school events piling up

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Signs you might be experiencing Christmas burnout

Feeling stretched thin doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. Lots of us feel this way, and it’s okay if you do too. 

What contributes to Christmas burnout?

Burnout feels different to different people, and it’s not always an obvious feeling. Here’s some main signs that people often mention:
  • Constant fatigue

  • Irritability or feeling snappy 
  • Trouble sleeping 
  • Feeling like you “just want the Christmas holidays to be over” 
Remember, these signs don’t mean you’re failing, far from it, they're actually quite common.
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Practical tips if you’re feeling overwhelmed

Burnout feels different to different people, and it’s not always an obvious feeling.

Ideas that can help manage Christmas burnout:

  • Simplifying plans: it’s okay to scale back 

  • Setting boundaries: saying “no” is a form of self-care 

  • Breaking tasks down: spread shopping and prep over weeks 

  • Budgeting realistically: Kiris Kringle, homemade gifts, or gift-free agreements 

  • Taking micro-breaks: a walk, a quiet coffee, or a few deep breaths 

  • Limiting social media: avoid comparing your experiences with others

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It's a relief to be able to say here honestly I don't find Christmas as joyous as TV adverts suggest. And the build up of expectations for at least the two months prior to Christmas is relentless.

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FAQs: Coping with Christmas exhaustion

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